"Should I take my child out of traditional school?" You don't answer that by weighing school against homeschooling. Those aren't the only two options. You answer it by settling one thing first: whether what you're watching in your child is a signal or a rough patch. Rough patches resolve on their own. Signals don't. This one is for the parents in the room. If you've got a kid who isn't okay at school and you can't tell whether it's bad enough to act on, the rest of this is for you. Wrong question: Should I pull him out? Right question: Is what I'm seeing a signal or a phase? How to tell the difference: Every parent who ends up asking the first question has been watching something for a while. Here's how to read it. - It's tied to school and nothing else. A child who is anxious and withdrawn everywhere is telling you something about themselves. A child who is fine on Saturday and sick on Monday is telling you something about the building. - It shows up in the body. Stomachaches and headaches on school mornings with no medical cause. The body reports first, and it keeps reporting until somebody listens. - The dread has a start time, and it's moving earlier. Last year it started Sunday evening. Note where it starts this year. If it's crept back to Saturday afternoon, that's not a bad week. - Curiosity is flattening. There was something they used to love. Now there isn't anything. - You've already tried to fix it. New teacher, tutoring, a different morning routine, a conversation with the school. If you've run the fixes and nothing moved, you have your answer about whether it's a phase. These aren't behavior problems. They're signals. What stops parents anyway. If you read that and recognized your kid, two things will still stop you, and both of them are wrong. The first: you think the alternative is homeschooling. It isn't. There are 7 alternative education models. Homeschooling is one of them. The second: you think you'd have to become the teacher. You wouldn't. In most of those models, the parent isn't the teacher at all.