Hey everyone, I'm Doru. I've got a 4-year-old daughter and a 6-month-old son. Here's the truth: I'm not writing this from some finished place. I'm a few steps ahead of most of you, not miles. I know what it feels like to be exhausted, distracted, and scared that the small moments you're missing right now are the ones your kids will remember. My biggest fear isn't some abstract "work-life balance" thing. It's specific: my kid growing up and me realizing I was in the room but not really there. I grew up without that. My dad left when I was seven. I spent my life until I was 18 bouncing between houses, and I know exactly what it costs a kid when a parent is present in body but absent everywhere else. I don't want to hand that down. So this community isn't me teaching from a mountaintop. It's me a few steps ahead, showing you what's actually working, admitting what isn't, and building this with you. Where am I losing ground right now? Not one big thing. It's the small stuff: reaching for my phone instead of my kid, being physically present but mentally somewhere else. My repair for the next 24 hours: phone away, full presence with my kids. No distractions. Tell me where you're losing ground. That's what this place is for.