Hi everyone guys. I'm implementing Dan's 3x model, and I have to say that I'm very well, only that a strange thing happens. With people I get along with, women, friends, etc., it's easy and it's very nice to put it into practice. Conversations fly by. But with people with whom there is no feeling.. it's hell!! I don't like talking to them, the conversation seems heavy to me, I have Desire to leave etc.. And I wanted to ask you if you think I'm wrong or if it's normal that you can't apply it to everyone. Does the 3x model serve to make us connect with people online or should it generally make us have good conversations with everyone?

Hi guys, how are you? Sorry to bother you. I've been following Dan for a while now, and I love his concept of integrity. I didn't understand just one thing, when he says to follow, for example values like honesty, I get a little confused. For me, being one thing can mean one thing, for you another, and for 10 other people another. How can I follow my integrity when a value can be highly abstract and not very objective? And even when I connect with people with values similar to mine, most likely if we connect, our values are similar but they will never be the same, because just one value for me can mean one thing, for you another. So the question that comes spontaneously to me is Do I have to find my definition of each value and base my actions on those to be as complete as possible? And how do I know if they are right for me? (And if I haven't found them yet I can take an example from people I admire as Dan often says)

Hi guys, do any of you know a useful and productive way to use the diary every day to improve the way we follow our integrity and our core values?

Hello everyone. I'm following Dan and I love his concept of honesty to death. However, I often use it as a technique to get positive reactions. And I seem to use manipulation techniques like those of pick up artists. So I wanted to ask with what mentality one should be honest and what to do to get rid of the desire to go out like. Thank you and sorry to bother you