Here’s is my truth... What most “mindset” articles or posts avoid teaching people is that your nervous system trusts receipts, not pep talks, affirmations, or other mindset tools. For example: When my mind says, "I don't know what to do?" I get stuck in a loop of stress and anxiety becaise I can't get out of the loop when I keep creating the struggle by repeating to myself, "I don't know what to do?" When I solve the actual problem in front of me…even imperfectly... I create proof that I am safe, capable, and can do hard things... it builds a type of confidence inside me and my nervous system can relax. That proof and belief is what deeply heals me. Pain lingers when we loop on stories and can’t get out of them. Healing begins when Icreate a solution, challenge what is possible for me or simply put a system in place. Symptom vs. System (Name it...call it what it is) - Symptom: “I’m always stressed about money.” - System problem: No cash-buffer, no cash flows, no assets. - Solution: Create a cash flow vein, create a cash-buffer, learn a money making skill - Symptom: “I don’t have time.” - System problem: Calendar is permissionless; tasks aren’t batched; priorities aren’t ranked. - Solution: Organize myself, get help organizing, create SOPs - Symptom: “People keep taking advantage of me.” - System problem: No boundary scripts; no consequence ladder; unclear agreements. - Solution: Create scripts, create a consequence ladder or agreements When I fix the system, and the symptom stops begging for my attention. When I am deeply into a problem i stop and ask myself if I am addicted to the problem. Meaning, some people's based line has been programed to react the way they do. They become addicted to their stress, unhappiness, distress and reactions and continue to have them over and over again. This blocks all opportunities that could arise instead. I heal myself when I solve the problem because it reroutes my nervous system out of the reactive state and I have now become a problem solver. A lot of opportunity is hidden in problem solving.

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I'm so glad I joined this mornings Coffee Hour Show. I'll be sure not to miss any future ones. I learned so much about myself and my thinking an how I can now stop sabotaging myself. I feel so much more empowered. Thank you Vickie for sharing your knowledge with all of us and to think that it is all free makes me so grateful.

Welcome to our Undependent Women’s Club We Are The #1 Place Where Build and Own Real Wealth Before we dive in... Please read all of this and watch the onboarding video too. We want to invite you to join our new member Meet & Greet Call on Tuesday to meet Vickie & other new members. Mark your calendar now so you don't miss it. To thank you for taking time to come meet us, our members who join this call get additional resources that we do not provide to everyone else. We will have private guest professionals to support you. ___________________________ 🥇 #1 Rule 🥇 If you are here to get value, you will. But if you GIVE value, you will find you get much more out of this community and from our team. - NO DM farming (“comment below and I’ll send it over”) - NO spamming people in this community, we will find out - NO links in your posts or comments, this is not a sales platform. This is a community of support and education :) - #werewardActionTakers! If you show up and contribute to the community, I want to spotlight you and I will promote your community, expertise, and in some cases... your offers. This is how we rise together. ___________________________ 🎯 The Goal 🎯 The Undependent Women’s Sovereign Wealth Club's mission is simple: “Our mission is to support and empower women to reclaim ownership, build sovereign wealth, and create freedom on their own terms. Together we rise, thrive, and lead the future.” ✊ Who We Are ✊ This community is for Women who want to learn how to grow the kind of wealth assets and wealth that keep them safe, free, and Undependent. ❌ Who This Is Not For ❌ - Women who are not going to take action #NoLurkers - Women who want to sell their products to other women 🚧 Problems We Solve 🚧 - Lack of clarity - No or incorrect information - Financial predators - Burnout from working a system that wasn’t meant for your success - Lack of a sisterhood and support 💰 The Result 💰