š¦ Pressure V's Connection....
⨠Inspired by a post comment this week. If youāve ever felt confused about pressure vs connection - youāre not alone. Here is how you will hear me explain it: āŖļøVoice, breath, energy, focus, intention ā connection work āŖļøSteady pressure, rhythmic pressure, and the skills around them ā teaching, explaining, real-life situations, safety and purpose. A lot of people are searching for ways to work with their horse without pressure and the intention behind that is beautiful. But what Iāve learned over the years is that itās not about removing pressure completely, that is impossible and actually avoids most of the general skills the horse needs for real life. š Itās about understanding it so well that over time and with practice it becomes lighter, clearer, and eventually almost invisible. You will hear me talk about Lenny where it is like he is in my skin, reading my thoughts, this cannot be achieved without pressure. Our very presence is pressure. I have yet to find someone who does not live on a 100 acre ranch, in the middle of no where, not having to run into traffic or every day things that achieved this. Or who eventually does not have to resort to some form of pressure anyway not realizing that standing in front of them , laying down with them and even sitting on their back is still form of pressure. They will even sell their programs as pressure free. Thatās the work I care about - giving people the real deal, not some made up story to sell lies. We need the truth peeps, coz the truth saves a lot of money and time. To bring out the unicorns the pressure will always exist, but how we use it definitely matters. āDoes this make sense to you or are you unsure? š“āØš«¶