Yesterday, I started out, by being mindfull and practiced boundary as kindness. I have a youngster (2 1/2 yo), that I’m working on, having her head lower than her withers, head slightly bent, to the inside, and leading. She can be quite reactive at times, and, has been for me, with this exercise. I brought her into the work area, and just stood with her, for a moment, asking her to respectfully, be there with me, while I did some breathing and grounding. We proceeded to the exercise. I asked for her cooperation, instead of demanding it. I still felt very much in control and she definitely responded. It was the most productive session we’ve had yet. For 10 minutes of work, there was plenty of, shaking it out, and some good licking and chewing. I spent a few minutes afterwards, standing with her, asking her to not fuss with me, and after a moment, stood nicely with me and she fully relaxed. Thank you @Shana Veilleux , for teaching me this exercise, and I am appreciative for this forum. Hopefully, I can remember, to make being present, part of any time, I spend with my herd. Being present in your horses presence, is one of my favourite phrases, but unfortunately, it’s not always the easiest to remember. I think I’ll try and make that a sign, in my barn ☺️