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I Published My First Book: Begin Again With G.R.A.C.E.
This book came from a season of my life when beginning again was not something I chose. It was something life required of me. A few years ago, I experienced three strokes. In the years that followed, I found myself rebuilding much more than my physical health. I had to reconsider parts of my career, my relationships, my identity, my expectations for myself, and even my definition of success. I kept thinking that recovery meant getting back to the woman I had been before everything changed. Eventually, I realized I was asking the wrong question. I did not need to figure out how to get back to who I was. I needed to give myself permission to become who I was going to be next. That journey became the foundation for Begin Again With G.R.A.C.E. G.R.A.C.E. stands for Grieve. Rebuild. Anchor. Create. Embrace. Those five words reflect the process I found myself moving through as I learned how to acknowledge what I had lost without allowing loss to become the end of my story. I wrote this book for people standing in the uncomfortable space between what was and what comes next. It is for the person whose life changed unexpectedly. It is for the person grieving a career, relationship, dream, identity, season, version of themselves, or future they thought was certain. It is also for the person who knows something needs to change but has not quite figured out what beginning again looks like. One of the most important things I have learned is that beginning again does not require pretending the past did not happen. We get to carry forward what served us, release what no longer does, and build from where we actually are. Publishing this book was about more than becoming an author. It was about turning some of the hardest chapters of my life into something that might help someone else write their next one. That is why I wrote Begin Again With G.R.A.C.E. ❤️
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Welcome to the Limitless Living Collective, and thank you for being here! 🤍 I'd love to know who's in this community with me. Introduce yourself below: 1️⃣ Your first name and where you're from 2️⃣ What you do (or what you're stepping into next) 3️⃣ One area of your life you're ready to grow in I'll go first in the comments. Can't wait to meet you. 👇
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Hi, everyone! I’m Nichole, and I’m from South Carolina. ❤️ 1️⃣ Who I am: I’m an attorney, leadership/organizational strategist, adjunct law professor, speaker, and author. I’m also a first-generation college graduate, so Wanda’s comment about walking into rooms no one prepared you for definitely resonated with me. Much of my life and career has been about learning how to navigate those rooms—and eventually helping others navigate them, too. 2️⃣ What I do: I spent more than two decades working in the legal profession before stepping away from traditional employment to focus on my consulting business. Today, I work with leaders and organizations on leadership development, organizational culture, conflict resolution, ethics, and navigating change. A lot of my work is grounded in a simple belief: our experiences—even the difficult ones—can become useful tools for how we lead, serve, and create impact. I also teach at the University of South Carolina School of Law and recently published my first book, Begin Again With G.R.A.C.E. 3️⃣ Where I’m growing: Learning to build without believing I have to carry everything. This season of my life has required me to think differently about success, capacity, rest, and what sustainable growth actually looks like. I’m learning that growth isn't always about doing more. Sometimes it's about becoming much more intentional about what deserves your energy and what doesn't. Looking forward to getting to know everyone and supporting Wanda as she builds this community. �
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@Wanda Tillman Thank you! ❤️ That is a great question. I think the biggest thing I have decided no longer deserves my energy is proving that I can. For much of my life, if I could carry something, I did. If I could push through, figure it out, make it happen, or be the person everyone could count on, I usually was. I have learned, sometimes the hard way, that capability and capacity are not the same thing. Just because I can do something does not mean I should. Just because I am capable of carrying something does not mean it belongs to me. These days, I am much more intentional about asking whether something deserves my time, energy, and capacity before I automatically say yes. I am also learning that choosing not to carry something is not an admission that I cannot handle it. Sometimes it simply means I have decided it is no longer mine to carry. That has probably been one of the hardest and most freeing lessons of this season of my life. I would also be happy to share the story behind Begin Again With G.R.A.C.E. in Ring the Bell. Thank you for the invitation! ❤️
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Darquetta Davis
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My name is Nichole. I'm leadership consultant, organizational strategist, attorney, adjunct law professor, mentor, and 3x stroke survivor.

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