Getting ready to close the year 2025 ✨🐍
✨How are you feeling about closing 2025? Today I caught myself being properly dysregulated… and for me that often looks like turning into the world’s grumpiest critic. Everything felt annoying, pointless, and I was being sooo negative about literally everything (if I’m being honest, this is a classic dysregulation sign for me 😅). And the funny thing is… I refused to do any of my usual somatic stuff. I was like “nope, not today” which added to my dysregulation "How can I share this work if I can't even do it when I need it the most?🫣" So instead I tried something new: I leaned all the way into the negativity. Like… if I’m going to do this, let’s do it fully 😈 I grabbed my journal and wrote a list of all the reasons why I sucked (YES, I genuinely think I titled it “the biggest failure on earth”… dramatic much? 😂). I let my emotions ride over the page. And when I finished, my mind literally went: “Is that all? …It’s actually not that bad, you know.” And I felt my body soften in the truth of it. My breath dropped deeper. My shoulders relaxed. So that's a new regulation skill I learnt today: de-dramatise my thoughts 😄 Such a good reminder that regulation doesn’t always look the same… and the most important thing is following what the body actually needs (and giving ourselves a bit of grace along the way 💛). ✨✨Also a little reminder about the Boxing Day Self-Care Lucky Dip in case you missed it 👇 👉 How it works 1️⃣ In the comments, share one thing you want more of in 2026 (e.g. calm, space, joy, self-trust, softness… anything) 2️⃣ Everyone who comments will receive my 💛 In-the-Moment Regulation Kit – 3 Audio Practices to Regulate Your Nervous System as a free gift (this is usually a paid offer). 3️⃣ I’ll also randomly draw a few extra gifts from the comments: 🎫 2 × 30 min Human Design Chat 🌬️ 1 × Nervous System Check-in (single 1:1 session) 🎧 1 × Feel Again audio bundle ✨ 2 × personalised nervous system practices (I’ll create a short written or audio practice just for you, based on what you share)