We can easily get sad or mad when our spouse when they win. Remember you are one. His win is your win and her win is your win. A win is win. Let’s complete each other missions to thrive together.

Marriage is more than expectations. Expectations is demands wrapped in politeness To have a fruitful marriage, becoming flexible to all things will help relieve the tension What will you flex in today?

8 years ago approximately I was in a walker I was prepping for drill and my back was hurting as usual I didn’t have any other work lined up excluding this annual tour. My wife asked what would we do after this. I told her I would fight for this marriage and family. Within minutes while walking out to my car I went from a 4 to a 8 in pain. I almost hit the ground. My knees saved me. I ask the LORD for strength and recovered to get the car. Drove a hour and thought I was fine Nope I was back in pain to a 8 I army crawled in the my squadron. After some time I went to the ER Fast forward two days later I was in a walker. It took me 3 months to learn how to walk again. My wife was there daily to support thru this crazy adventure including getting me a shower stool and getting me to work. Trials are not timed. Trials are for your testing. This tested our marriage. Are you prepared for the tests

How do respond when your #spouse infers compared to ask?

We something think if we do certain things in marriage, we are a good spouse. Also when we mess we think we are a bad spouse. Don’t confuse this with spouses that are purposefully doing wrong but this is more for the day to day life ups and downs. No matter what the day brings, you are a good spouse because of who you are not what you do. I will do a live soon expanding on this topic.