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12 contributions to The Parent Coach Academy
Hello out there…
Sorry for being MIA for the past few weeks. I have been taking some time to really focus on the students, athletes, families and people closest to me as we head into summer. It has allowed me time and space to find some clarity on my path forward here with NOGA FC. Thank you all for hanging around. I promise there is some cool stuff to come in the next few weeks. I have one big question for anyone still listening here: What was the most impactful experience you can recall from your childhood that shaped the way you talk to young people today???
3 likes • 18d
Having no voice as a child was the very best thing for me to experience, it provided me with the drive to do things differently with my children. I raise children with PDA, I have had no choice but to give them what I missed, add in my drive for my children to have a voice, and I have some amazing children who can stand up for themselves as equals to adults…..not that the adults appreciate this 🤣
What are you grateful for…
This holiday weekend I am overwhelmed with gratitude for my family and the time I have this weekend to spend with them. They are the reason I am building this space. I would love to know what all of you are doing and what you are most grateful for right now?
4 likes • May 25
Everything, good or bad, but right now I’m grateful for the sun that allows the children to swim and paddle board in the lake all day.
ā° Where do you find the time…?
Lately I have been scheduling every single minute of my day. Insane but very helpful in finding lost time. How do you all find the extra minutes you need to get stuff done? I find the hardest part is that I either have to steal them from myself, my wife or my kids. And that means that one of us is getting neglected to make progress in this community and the tools I am trying to build for parents. I appreciate everyone in here for being an early part of this. I promise you it is a slow build but it is for sure building… Share your time based hardships below if you want. I’d love to not feel like the only one who wishes he could add a few more hours to the clock every day. I also through a silly poll in this one.
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1 like • May 17
Acceptance is my only alley, even a Time Machine would have an engine malfunction in my life, in fact the Time Machine would likely abandon me in a different century.
What is your superpower?
I am wondering what you all feel is your personal superpower and how you share it with your families and the world around you.
1 like • May 8
@Anthony Patierno total sense and the example is appreciated. From what I’ve noticed, if I am my authentic autistic self, I will be seen as offensive or disagreeable šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø None of that is an actual reflection of me, it’s a reflection of the emotional point the other person is at. I have learnt that people cannot manage the answers they seek, even if articulated diplomatically. Us humans are a sensitive bunch 🤣.
0 likes • May 11
@Anthony Patierno absolutely and it’s a gift. If someone can absorb the kindness behind disagreeing , perspective can change and progress can happen.
Lesson 8: Mastery at home
A castle built on a bad foundation is destined to collapse under pressure…agree or disagree? When I work with young players they always want to skip the fundamentals and get into more exciting things like shooting or skill moves. What is difficult to explain to them is that there basic movements are wrong for a soccer player so correcting their shot is impossible, unless we start with the basics. This is where the BEST athletes in the world started their journey. They committed, at home, all by themselves, to being elite at the fundamentals. I can honestly say, even my own progress in the sport is curved by my mastery of fundamentals. If my running technique was more refined I would have conserved more energy and been more fit. If my left foot dribbling was equal to my right I would have given away possession less on my left side. If my knowledge of the game tactically at the time was better I would have improved my performance across the board. At the time though, nobody was holding me accountable for that level of mastery and most importantly, I wasn’t holding myself accountable for it either. The book extreme ownership by Jocko Willink changed how I think fundamentally when it comes to growth and progress. If only I had read it my sophomore year of college…who knows how I would have progressed. I’m proud of what I did and now on a mission to help others reach heights they weren’t sure they could get to. Mainly by helping them realize that hours at home becoming a master when nobody is looking is really the highlight tape that players should be focusing on more than the goals from their Sunday league games. Would love to hear what all of you think about this story and what your ā€œat home masteryā€ looks like right now for you or for your child.
2 likes • May 10
By mastering the fundamentals you create muscle memory that lasts a lifetime. Repetition is a sports person annoyance but also their friend. My daughter is autistic so she thrived on the repetition, and this actually meant she was the one child from her gymnastics club what got to the Worlds. Not because she was autistic, but because she loved repetition and perfecting skills. My daughter got a medal for her country at just 11 years of age. She is now 29 and can still do any skill she was taught at the beginning, she doesn’t even have to think about it. Another thing that got my daughter there was her desire to master things and then go back to the gym and show her coach. When most kids were chilling at home for the weekend or holidays, my daughter got stronger. The kids would return and they were exhausted and struggling with the first session back, my daughter was managing with ease. None of this came from me, I never once pushed her, I would plant the seed and see if she would grow.
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@dani-cook-9060
Specialist foster carer developing a stigma-free, non-labelling approach to human needs and safeguarding, built for those least able to ask for help.

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