@Brett Baillie thank you so very much and right now I am mostly trying to get myself together and ready for job interviews and as I stated if I could afford to get my hair cut and colored or cut and have someone come help me with a home hair color bought from Walmart I would feel more confident because I can stand going with makeup and fancy clothes but I definitely feel that I need to have my hair fixed for a interview to be considered seriously and I’m using AI to make my resume and cover letters for jobs and am extremely impressed with the quality of them because my last resume was done 20 years ago and definitely not in the current format that is being used so I am learning and trying but it a lot to make happen while also still being a present and active mother and only parent caring for our children 99 % of the time. While still taking care of our household, cooking meals, helping with homework, taking the kids to multiple appointments every week and having to do everything myself including home repairs and yard work it just doesn’t seem like there’s enough time in a day for me to accomplish everything and have time for sleep and self care before it time to start all over again because it’s a new day and we are adjusting and learning so things will eventually be better but my special needs children are still barely able to dress themselves and still struggle with buttons and are in OT for things like this and more in addition to mental health therapy weekly so I am trying to get by one day at a time and have already had my abusive husband call DSS on me 2 times and they come do house inspections and I keep trying to make it look perfect because that is what he expected me to do and I am so afraid of DSS after the stories and new laws that were passed that can allow courts to remove children from both parents in a divorce if the parents are not trying to get along for the children’s best interests and that is something that I thought was fake news and made up stuff by people that lost their children for good reasons and then I get told that our state passed a law allowing family court to take away children and then require that both parents work and pay child support to the foster care home and that rabbit hole is one that I wish I had not researched because I was trying to reassure myself it was not true and I was made more afraid of DSS than I think I have been of my abuser at times. So again I am here to support your page and what you are doing and share a little bit of my story so that people know that what you are doing is very important and not just for individuals like me but we have a huge issue with elderly people who have needs and no help and are in the time where the baby boomer generation is making the retailed elderly population currently the largest group ever and families are not sticking together and co living like our grandparents and prior generations to assist their aging families members but also the elderly population is losing their family and friends who have passed and they often don’t have anyone else to support them but refuse to speak up or seek help because they don’t want to be put in nursing homes or worse situations so they are suffering in silence.

@Brett Baillie I will have to research that and get back to you especially with the elderly communities because I am not a expert on this subject and am learning myself how much we are really failing at in the world of today and how blinded most people are that there all these government and nonprofit organizations that are helping and if we pay taxes and tith in church we are doing our part. But I think I would look at rural gaming communities and reach out to the churches in the community that are obviously not well populated and start there as a way to find people who are in need of assistance and support and not donate to any of the large non profit organizations that are mainly helping in urban areas and paying salaries for their management that would help enough for multiple families to live comfortably off of.