I'm sooo glad to see the end of a six year winter (drought) in my life. This wilderness season has been extremely challenging to survive, not to mention attempting to lead others while navigating. Over the course of these six years, I've seen some loved ones take their final breath, I've consoled true friends who have lost their children/spouses/parents, I've opened and closed companies (and opened more companies), I've watched two of my adult children pull completely away from my side of their family because they don't have language for their trauma yet, I've held extremely tough conversations with my wife, I've moved my family across the country and back just in time for her to care for her dying mother (losing both parents within five years), I’ve become a caregiver to my beautiful wife (which neither of us could've ever seen coming), I've cut ties with deadweight ppl who refused to grow, I've also walked away from some amazing ppl because I was bleeding and they didn't have the bandwidth to triage my wounds. All while being human and dealing with my perception of other ppl's perception of me through it all. The most prideful and insecure edges of me no longer exist. The persistent applied pressure of sandpaper has produced a smooth surface. And at the same time, it has also produced a sweet manifestation of humility, a clarity of self-awareness, self-confidence, and a clearer understanding of the macro as it pertains to my teeny tiny micro. Out of nowhere, it got better; like inexplicably better. Attitude has a great deal to do with how one measures "better". But I can assuredly say that I am walking in a season of favor, goodness, and mercy. Big things to celebrate are just ahead. To anyone currently in a wilderness or entering into a wilderness season, I offer this free advice for anyone a few steps behind me who will listen. First, own it (the brutal reality of how much it sucks to be there, own it!). Second, humble yourself, don't lose yourself. Figure out the difference if you are unclear. Third, know that it is not designed to kill you, but to bring out the best version of you (not the you you've pretended to be). Fourth, rock and be uniquely you. That's my secret sauce because nobody can beat me at being me. And lastly, the most challenging thing about waiting is the WEIGHT you're required to balance without having any answers. Faith is proven by the steps you do or don't take without a definitive answer before you move. I'm pulling for you! Peace

Hello, just wanted to pop in and give an update on payments collected for our men's summit on September 18 through the 20th. I have attached a list of all men who have paid the $250 that is due by the end of February to lock in their spots for the summit. After February 28, we will be opening up this opportunity to the men outside of this Skool group including the BCWT? Facebook group (1,000 members). If you are seeing this and you plan to attend, do not delay in sending your $250 ASAP via Zelle or Cash App (*see attached photos). There will be no more than 12 spots total available for the trip (CURRENTLY EIGHT REMAINING). We will be going to the NC mountains September 18-20 and will be deciding on which cabin to rent based on the total number of paid participants we have by the beginning to middle of April. We hope that you will join us for this amazing opportunity to further build community with some great brothers! I want to thank brothers @Willie Walker, @Winston Earle, and @Ismail Shahid for their input and leadership on this project. I'm excited and we've got a great itinerary planned for you. Don't miss this; it's our first official trip! Coach Damon *** more info to come Please place any questions in the comments below.. we will try to get them answered expeditiously.

Let me say something that many of us have felt recently: It can feel like everything is theater. Politics. Media. Outrage cycles. Corporations. Influencers. Fear campaigns. Moral grandstanding. Everybody selling something. Everybody performing something. Everybody reacting to something. And you sit there and think: Is any of this real anymore? And if it’s not… why should I even try? That’s not weakness. That’s awareness colliding with overload. But here’s the pivot: If the world feels like a stage…that doesn’t make your life a rehearsal. It makes your WHY even more critical. Because when the external world becomes unstable, manipulated, or noisy… The only thing that stabilizes youis internal conviction. SECTION 1: WHY A STRONG WHY MATTERS MORE IN CHAOS When systems feel unreliable, men drift into one of three places: 1. Nihilism – “Nothing matters.” 2. Distraction – “I’ll just stay entertained.” 3. Rage – “Burn it all down.” None of those build a life. A strong WHY does something different: It narrows your focus. It says: I may not control the world,but I control the man I’m becoming inside it. There’s research behind this. Psychologist Viktor Frankl, a Holocaust survivor, observed something critical: Men who had a reason to livewere more psychologically resilient under extreme suffering. His conclusion wasn’t spiritual fluff. It was clinical observation: Meaning sustains endurance. When the world feels unstable, meaning becomes oxygen. Without it? You suffocate in noise. SECTION 2: “IF EVERYTHING IS FAKE, WHY BUILD ANYTHING REAL?” (Discussion Segment) Ask the room: - Have you ever felt like everything around you was performative? - Have you felt distrust toward institutions, media, systems? - Does that ever make you feel detached or numb? If the world is scripted…then authenticity becomes rebellion. If the world runs on distraction…then focus becomes power. If the world manipulates fear…then clarity becomes armor. Your WHY becomes: - A filter - A compass - A shield

Shalom Shalom Brothers. For those of you who couldn't join us last night, here are the notes. It's my hope that we all will hold on to the nuggets from this, as the "WHY" behind anything is more important than the actual thing itself. Coach D IDENTIFYING YOUR WHY When the Why Is Clear, the How Stops Being Scary OPENING MONOLOGUE Most men don’t lack discipline. They don’t lack intelligence. They don’t lack opportunity. They lack clarity. And when a man doesn’t know why he’s moving, every step feels heavy. Every obstacle feels personal. Every setback feels like a sign to quit. We’ve been taught to chase goals without ever anchoring them. Money. Fitness. Relationships. Purpose. But without a why, those are just things — not commitments. Here’s the truth most people avoid: If your why is weak, you will negotiate with your excuses. If your why is borrowed, you will abandon it under pressure. If your why is unclear, you will stay busy and go nowhere. Tonight is about removing the noise. Not hyping you up. Not motivating you temporarily. Tonight is about getting honest enough to name the thing that actually drives you — so the how no longer feels like a mystery or a burden. This is not about perfection. This is about alignment. Let’s get to work. SECTION 1: WHAT A “WHY” ACTUALLY IS A why is not: - A slogan - A quote - A vibe - A personality trait A real why has three properties: 1. It costs you something 2. It outlasts your mood 3. It pulls you forward when comfort says stop Your why is the reason you are willing to endure discomfort without needing applause. Most men confuse: - Goals with why - Desire with commitment - Inspiration with direction A goal says: “I want this.” A why says: “I’m not willing to live without becoming who this requires.” That’s the difference. SECTION 2: WHY MOST MEN DON’T KNOW THEIR WHY Let’s strip the excuses. Most men don’t know their why because: 1. They inherited expectations instead of choosing meaning

Family, just a quick reminder that our BCWT? Gatherings happen every week here on the Skool platform (web or mobile app): 📍 Tuesdays at 8PM EST 📍 Fridays at 7AM EST These sacred spaces are not recorded — and that’s intentional. The conversations we share are deep, raw, and real. It's a judgment-free zone where brothers can open up without worry, and healing can actually begin. We encourage every member to make time to join us if you can. You will absolutely benefit from being in the room. These gatherings are a two-way street — a time of give and take for all of us. We’ve also been loving our new ‘Story Time’ segment. It’s been powerful, personal, and needed. If you’ve got a story, or you just want to listen and support, you belong in the room. Let’s grow together. No man left behind. Only forward. 💬🔥