Breaking the Halt: Why I Built the Date Night Decider
In my creative work and my life, I’ve realized that we often stop living because we can’t stop choosing. We get caught in these "indecisive halts"—loops where the energy just stops. We spend an hour deciding where to eat or what to do, and by the time a choice is made, the spark is gone. We’ve traded a lived experience for a mental argument. I believe we are meant to be in a state of flow. Think of it like an "Infinity Pull"—the world is constantly pulling us toward infinite possibilities. But if we don't have a "Circle Push" to move us forward, we just spin in place. We get stuck. I built the Date Night Decider to be that "Push." It’s a digital tool born from my own experience of getting stuck. It’s designed to remove the friction of the "small" choices so you can save your energy for the "big" moments. It’s about clearing the path so that you and the people you care about can stop debating and start being. If you’ve ever felt your evening (or your life) come to a standstill because of a simple choice, I’d love for you to try this. Let it make the decision so you can get back to the flow.