I have the perfect scenario to let things be exactly as they are. My mother-in-law is ill.She lives in Tucson and my husband is taking things as business as usual. I, on the other hand want to fix things from 1000 miles away. If it were me, I’d be making flight plans, and canceling my calendar. However, I have managed to stay quiet and let him do what he thinks is best. She is getting hardcore antibiotics and is not hospitalized. She is 86 and she has always been healthy and active. However, the infection is serious (C.difficile).