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Dudley Castle investigation
Join us for the Premiere on Youtube this evening, as we share our experience on a public investigation at Dudley Castle in the UK https://youtu.be/XrfBpSBYRxY
0 likes • Jan 31
Damn I missed it!!!
1 like • Feb 5
@Anne Rzechowicz I see a YouTube marathon ahead for the weekend :)
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF FEAR — WHY WE SEEK OUT FRIGHTFULLY GOOD (AND SCARY) EXPERIENCES
If fear was genuinely unpleasant in every way… none of us would be here. No horror podcasts. No ghost hunts. No haunted houses, no creepy castles, no late-night “why did I do this to myself?” binges of paranormal content with one eye covered by the doona! And yet — here you are. Voluntarily choosing to be unsettled. That’s not an accident. And it’s definitely not a flaw in your wiring. It’s your brain doing exactly what it was designed to do… just in a slightly mischievous, modern way. Fear is one of our oldest survival tools. And it is still a giant motivator! Long before it became entertainment, it kept us alive. A rustle in the bushes, a shadow where there shouldn’t be one, a sense that something isn’t right — fear sharpens attention, floods the body with adrenaline, and prepares us to act fast. Fight, flee, freeze. The classics. But here’s where it gets interesting. The same biological response that once saved us from predators is now being activated while we sit safely on the couch listening to a story about a haunted château or a poltergeist with a grudge. Your brain doesn’t entirely know the difference. When you hear a well-told scary story, your amygdala — the brain’s fear centre — lights up. Your heart rate increases. Your senses sharpen. Your body releases adrenaline, dopamine, and endorphins. It’s a chemical cocktail designed for survival… but experienced in a controlled, safe environment. That’s the key. Safe fear. This is what parents who ask us if their 10 year old can come on a tour fail to understand. There is a HUGE difference between SAFE FEAR and real fear. We've seen it when people have snuck in their under aged children into Maitland Gaol, one of our most haunted sites over the 7 years we were there and some times it was pretty devastating to see the fear in those kids eyes. Psychologists sometimes call this “benign masochism” — the enjoyment of negative sensations when we know, logically, that we’re not actually in danger. Roller coasters. Spicy food. Sad movies. Horror stories. We flirt with discomfort because the outcome is controlled.
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF FEAR — WHY WE SEEK OUT FRIGHTFULLY GOOD (AND SCARY) EXPERIENCES
1 like • Feb 5
Our ancient 'lizard brain' can so easily take over. Its the first part of the brain activated when we're born. As for their more than the world we see... I argue endlessly with anyone who tries to tell me otherwise. Heck, we believed the earth was flat once! And I'm far from religious... I proudly wear the badge of being banned from a church... but without doubt my aunty would come back from wherever she is (heaven or whatever else you believe) & flog anyone who says she ain't around with me every day!!
Does experiencing a recent loss impact during investigations?
Some moments from last night's tour, and ongoing discussion with son afterwards raised this question. Having recently lost a very much missed loved one, does this have any impact when investigating? If so, how? Is this something to be mindful of?
1 like • Jan 18
@Anne Rzechowicz We had planned the trip a while ago. And the loss was very unexpected. I also know they would want me to "stop fussing & get on with life"
What intrigues you most about the whole ghost hunting phenomenon?
What makes you keep watching the youtubers who go out investigating? Do you have a special team that you watch and why?
0 likes • Jan 18
Ghost Hunters International... particularly Barry Fitzgerald remains all time fave. It is his knowledge & investigation style that interested me the most. To this day if I fall asleep with Ghost Hunters on tv, I always wake up when the episodes he's in comes on. Combination of personal experiences, curiosity (and being banned from a church) that started my interest. I'm glad I've been able to share that interest with my son
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