There is usually a moment, quiet and easy to dismiss, where something tells us this is not right. The job, the relationship, the path we are on. Not a dramatic sign, just a feeling that sits in the background and doesn't quite go away no matter how much we try to reason with it or wait it out. And we stay anyway. Because we have already invested so much. Because leaving feels like admitting something we are not ready to admit. Because the longer we have been on something the harder it becomes to justify stepping off. We confuse the length of the journey with proof that we are heading somewhere worth going. But time spent going the wrong direction is not something we can recover by continuing. Every stop further down the wrong line is another stop we have to retrace. The sunk cost of the 'ticket' already paid does not change the fact that we are moving away from where we need to be. The hardest part is that staying feels cheaper in the moment. Leaving has an immediate visible cost; the discomfort, the uncertainty, the starting over. What we don't see as clearly is the cost of not leaving. The years, the energy, the slow erosion of knowing we stayed somewhere past the point we should have gone. Getting off at the wrong stop is not failure. *Riding it to the end of the line when we knew an hour ago it wasn't going where we needed to go, that is the expensive part.*

Day 3 I AM Taking Responsibility for Everything I Do and Have Caused in My Life!

Let me know what small step you are taking that will compound to make big changes by the end of 2026? Last year I tried out for the team GB and I ended the year in Norway fighting black belts and standing on a podium with gold medals around my neck. I also started a coaching zoom practice group. ❤️ Maybe your step is to join us this year… reach out if you need regular practice. This year I am writing a book… my intention is to end the year with a publisher ❤️ 📖

Today is the turn of letter C What are you greateful for? Cheese Chest Chocolate Companion (wife and Friends) Club Congress Coworking Colaboration Contribution Car Coffe Canary Candies Computer Croissants Couch Cereal Clothing Cushion

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