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Helping single moms release what's keeping them stuck, reclaim power & create a calm CEO life. Host: Whole by Design. Author: Legacy by Design

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The Lies That Keep Us Stuck: How True Is It That Anything Worth Having Should Be Difficult?
What if one of the beliefs keeping you stuck is the idea that “the struggle” is simply part of life, and that nothing worth having comes easy? Whose voice taught you that ease must be earned, rest must be justified, and your worth must be proven through hard work? For many of us South Africans born in the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s, the word "long-suffering " has become part of our identity, as we believed struggle is a natural part of life. We learnt to adjust, endure and keep going. The struggle may look different now, but has the belief remained that if something matters, it must be difficult? · How do you respond when things are quiet and slow? · Do you stay busy because slowing down feels unnatural? And what if … what if joy and freedom are found not only through striving, but through ease of being, wonder, awe, rest and allowing yourself to be fully present in your life? My S4 model (Survival, Self-awareness, Safety, and Soaring) invites us to recognise this limiting belief for what it is: the lie that we must stay busy, keep fighting, and struggle for our worth. Your worth is not measured by your exhaustion. You are not broken. Observe what happens when you begin to relate to yourself through the lens of wholeness and worthiness. What might become possible if you stopped organising your life around struggle? Explore this question with us in the upcoming EACP Masterclass. · Starting date: October 21 · Time: 16:30–18:00 SAST - A special announcement: There is a bonus for the first 10 people who sign up. 👉🏽Join our EACP Coaching community and find out more: https://tinyurl.com/598wp9xs Tag a loved one who needs permission to choose ease, rest and joy. Comment “REST” if you are ready to question the lie of struggle and make space for a different way of being and living.
The Lies That Keep Us Stuck: How True Is It That Anything Worth Having Should Be Difficult?
1 like • Oct 13
So true. I've learnt that the struggle is 'not' real, that I have the power and the capacity to not let it continue
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Helping moms reclaim power & build calm CEO life | Nervous System & Wealth Coach | Ex Shell SA People Development Champion | Founder Whole by Design

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