@Gino Hijada my son and I have sit downs. These are moment of vulnerability, but they've been getting less and less as he gets older. He will go to me before mom, but it doesn't mean he tells me everything.

@Gino Hijada he's 10. I've spent the last decade learning about myself and how the brain works. When he was 5 we learned he had ADHD like me and that's when I really started sitting with him.