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Mission in Motion: My First Wedding Request (and It Was at a Bar)
I had barely unpacked. Just moved my young family across the country, fresh into my first role as a pastor. Boxes still sealed, books not even on shelves yet. That’s when a stranger walked up and told me:“You’re doing my wedding.” I blinked. “Excuse me?” He didn’t mean it as a request. He was insistent. And the wedding? It wasn’t at a church. It was at a bar. Here’s what I quickly learned: - He was 44. - She was 24. - And yes, she had once been his high school student. Not exactly the picture-perfect start for a young pastor hoping for a tidy ministry. But what could I do? I said yes. That day taught me two things right away: 1. You don’t get to choose where God asks you to serve. 2. Faithfulness starts before you feel ready. The wedding itself was … unconventional, to put it mildly. I felt in over my head, wondering what I had gotten myself into. But it planted a seed. Over time, I built a relationship with that man. We talked - We debated - We prayed. Slowly, he found his way back to church. Years later, he wasn’t just attending — he became a lay leader. When I look back, I see it clearly:That wedding in a bar was the doorway. The start of a long journey that ended in real transformation. Leaders, here’s the takeaway: 📌 You don’t always choose your assignments — sometimes they choose you. 📌 The most unorthodox doors can lead to the deepest fruit. 📌 Your “first” step of obedience often sets the tone for years of ministry ahead. Reflection for You:What was your first unexpected assignment? The one that didn’t fit the mold but ended up shaping your calling? Drop it in the comments — I’d love to hear your story.
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@Larry Scarbeau Well done and thanks for sharing. For me, I remember a moment back in 2021 that launched my coaching business. I was speaking at my real estate mastermind and I was also being promoted by them as a success. When my time came to speak I shared the story you're familiar with. About how I was flying on airplanes all the time and missing my young son grow up. I shared how the words he spoke to me, "Dad I don't like it when you leave", drove me to push through my fears and take my shot. Because I refuse to blow my ONE chance to watch him grow up. A few hours later when the day was done we had a reception before dinner. A few people came up to me to share how my speech had impacted them. "That thing you said about your son really landed with me." Shortly after, a line had formed and there were 20+ people waiting to speak with me. It was at that moment I knew I had something that people wanted to hear and needed to hear. I still tell the story about my son to do this day, I've said it hundreds of times. And the impact is still the same.
Going on a journey!
My wife told me this morning she is going on a journey. I told her I will go with her knowing the journey is primarily for her. Next Tuesday, Aug.18th?? she has to visit a specialist at the Cross Cancer Clinic. As you can imagine the word Cancer ushers in fear that can be debilitating. Please pray for her to know the comfort of God our healer!
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@Larry Scarbeau Praying for you and your family.
New logo - Thanks Janine
I've updated the logo and header pic. Thanks to @Janine Wooten for your helpwith the logo!
New logo - Thanks Janine
1 like • Aug 3
@Larry Scarbeau Looks great. Awesome work @Janine Wooten !
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I help everyday people stop doubting themselves, see their own greatness, and launch businesses from the skills they already have.

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