Daily Practice: Can we talk about all the "NOs" along the process?
I was reminded today that it's the thousand quiet moments nobody sees that look like a quantum leap. - The practice. - The preparation. - The pivots. - The healing. - The courage. - The consistency. - The inconsistency. - And all of the NOs People often see the shine without seeing the stretching that produced it. What looks “sudden” is usually built little by little: - One conversation. - One risk. - One application. - One rejection. - One more try. There are plenty of days where I experience - NOs and delays. - Moments I question myself. - Rooms I wasn’t chosen for. - Seasons where the work felt invisible. - Requests for my specific proposal or application, and then radio silence or rejection. - And the list goes on. But we gotta keep going. I know it's the practice that builds the muscle and makes the progress. As I continue to build and look for opportunities to speak, teach, research, coach, and serve, I know nothing happens overnight. And while rejection hurts and stings, it's not always proof that something is missing. Instead, I view it as refinement, redirection, and preparation for the next level. "No" is a part of the process. And my family and the horses help me stay grounded and give me joy along the way. What are you working on that has all the twists and turns and how do you keep going?