I have an unpopular opinion. I don't think we always need to “work on ourselves.” There. I said it. Sometimes you don't need another book. Another podcast. Another journal prompt. Another freaking morning routine. Sometimes... You're okay. Maybe today you're allowed to stop treating yourself like a home improvement project. Go outside. Call somebody who makes you laugh. Eat something delicious. Play. Your life isn't something you have to finish fixing before you're allowed to enjoy it. Where could you stop working so damn hard on yourself and actually enjoy yourself instead? PS!!!.... We are almost at the end of the month!!! There is a prize on the line! 1 hour of laser coaching with...ME!

Can we talk about the snooze button? Not the one on your alarm. The one we hit on our lives. Later. Not yet. When I'm ready. When I feel more confident. When things calm down. SNOOZE. And somehow we think we're postponing the decision. We're not. Not deciding IS a decision. Well...shit. So this Monday, I'm curious: Where have you been hitting snooze on your own life? No shame. Just notice it. Then maybe... Get your ass out of bed. Metaphorically speaking. 😂

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This week we've talked about fear. We've talked about forgiveness. We've poked around in some places we don't normally bring up at cocktail parties. And you're still here. I freaking love that. So today I don't want another deep question. I want a celebration. Maybe you recognized a fear. Maybe you realized you've been carrying somebody else's bullshit for way too long. Maybe you forgave yourself for something. Maybe you simply thought: "Huh. I never looked at it that way before." That counts. Awareness changes shit. So... What's one thing you noticed about YOURSELF these past two weeks that you're effing proud you were willing to see? No fixing. No perfection. Just notice what you're noticing. Then give yourself some damn credit. Carpe the damn Diem. 💙

I've been thinking about fear lately. And I think one of the biggest fears isn't failure. It's this: What will people think? Seriously? People?? The same people who can't decide what they want for dinner are now on the Board of Directors of YOUR life? 😂 No. You don't need unanimous approval. You need your own vote. So I'm curious... Whose opinion has been getting way too much airtime in your head? And what would you choose if they didn't get a vote? This could get juicy.