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Why Writing Heals: The Science Behind the Practice
Writing is a powerful tool we have for emotional healing, and there’s solid science behind it. Here's what writing and journaling actually do for your body and brain: 🧠 Regulates Your Nervous System: When you write, you activate the thinking part of your brain (prefrontal cortex), which helps calm the emotional part (amygdala). This shifts you out of fight-or-flight and into a more grounded, reflective state. 💗 Helps You Process Emotions: Naming what you feel helps your brain make sense of it. Writing builds a bridge between emotion and logic, which reduces overwhelm and brings clarity to what once felt chaotic. 🦠 Boosts Physical Health: Research shows that writing about your inner world can actually improve immune function, lower stress hormones like cortisol, and ease anxiety and depression. It’s like medicine for your nervous system. 🔍 Creates Insight and Clarity: Slowing down to write helps you see patterns, connect dots, and understand yourself on a deeper level. This turns pain into meaning → and meaning into growth. 🧬 Rewires the Brain: Writing new perspectives or reframing old stories literally creates new neural pathways. Over time, this builds emotional resilience, self-awareness, and the ability to respond instead of react. So if you’re ever wondering “Is this really doing anything?” YES. It is! Writing isn’t just expression, it’s transformation. ✨ If you're open, start by writing here: what’s one emotion or experience you haven’t put into words yet?
0 likes • Jul 22
Anxiety. Even though my marriage is over, we've agreed on custody, and split up all the debt and assets, I still feel that tightness in my chest and worry. My therapist says my nervous system is still on high alert from being in fight-or-flight for over a year.
Welcome New Members!
Welcome to the community, @Ben Stark, @Sarah Doll, @Milena Cakić. We are so glad you are here! To help us get to know you, we’d love if you’d share one of the following (whatever feels easiest): ✨ What inspired you to join? 🎯 A goal you’re working toward 🌱 A challenge you’re ready to grow through 💬 Or simply how you're hoping this space can support you No pressure to share at all, just whatever feels right. Even a small glimpse can help us connect and create a space where everyone feels seen, supported, and safe, no matter where you are in your journey. 💛
1 like • Jul 18
I joined because of a post in a single dad Facebook group. I'm working through a difficult divorce and becoming a single father of 2. I want to get to a place where I can be happy and confident on my own, and some day feel ready for a new relationship.
For Moments of Anxiety or Panic
DAILY PRACTICE: For Moments of Anxiety or Panic. Save this for when your body feels hijacked and your mind won’t stop racing. When you begin to feel your mind/body begin to spiral try this: Step 1: 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding (60–90 seconds). Use your senses to anchor yourself in the present moment. Name: 🔹 5 things you can see 🔹 4 things you can touch 🔹 3 things you can hear 🔹 2 things you can smell 🔹 1 thing you can taste (I like to use mints or breathe strip) As you go through each, breathe slowly and say to yourself: “I’m here. I’m safe. I can handle this moment.” 👉 This tells your nervous system: The threat is NOT now. Step 2: Soothe the Vagus Nerve (60 seconds) - Place one hand over your heart, the other on your belly. - Inhale through your nose for 4 counts, hold for 2, exhale for 6. - Repeat 3–5 times. - Say gently: “It’s okay to feel this. I’m here with it.” Step 3: Anchor with a Phrase (10 seconds). Pick one phrase and repeat it silently or softly: 🌀 “I’m grounded. I’m safe.” 🌀 “This feeling will pass.” 🌀 “I can ride this wave with kindness.” Remember: You’re not broken, you're adapting.This practice rewires your response one safe moment at a time. You're not doing this alone - we’re right here with you. 💬 Tried this today? Drop a note below - what shifted for you? What did your body need?
2 likes • Jul 15
My therapist introduced me to this method a while back. It didn't really help at the time, as I was dealing with severe trauma, but now that I'm through it, I think I'll try it when I have attacks
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Ben Stark
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Christian single father. Currently going through a divorce. Truck driver, car guy, auto mechanic

Active 5d ago
Joined Jul 15, 2025