Salam! I hope everyone is doing well! I’m coming on here to seek advice from sister on what thing nonnegotiables should be. I know everyone has their different needs and expectations but I just feel like once I start reading about others it might spark my idea too and help me form the values I have into nonnegotiables. I just feel like I’m not aware of those values yet, so it’s frustrating to try to come up with something that I can’t put my finger on quite yet. I watched a video of mindful muslimah talking about non negotiables and how she helped her daughters correct their list. I need also tips of the vetting process