One part of my story Iāve been scared to own is being in survival mode for real⦠like always trying to catch up financially and mentally while still making sure my kids straight. I used to keep it to myself because I didnāt want nobody judging me or looking at me like Iām failing. But once I started looking at it differently, I realized it donāt mean Iām weak ā it mean Iāve been holding it down. Iām still here, still fighting, still trying. That shifted everything for me. It made me stop feeling ashamed and start feeling more determined to get ahead and break the cycle for good.