Seems like you KNOW it's not your responsibility yet your first knee-jerk reaction is to act as if it is. I am sure you are not the only person he treats this way....I AM willing to hold my boundaries firm no matter whom I am interacting with. YOU set the boundaries and YOU have to hold them firm. Often I consider these kinds of energies and wonder how they got to this point in time. Perhaps it is all they have known and so acting different isn't even in their awareness. Try complimenting HIM on his ideas and then build and expand them by adding your own ideas and inspirations. Once he starts receiving...he WILL go quiet as I sense he doesn't have a clue on how to handle a positive situation. For some chaos and negativity is normal. For you, it isn't. Shine your light instead of succumbing to his fears and doubts about himself. Try it...and not just once. By doing so you teach him how YOU prefer to be treated. Keep us posted!! 💖

@Amber Akeson Right? The video warmed my heart and reminded me just how powerful the Council of 12's teachings truly are. They never fail to show examples of how we are able to turn things around. Amazing!

What you are describing is a lack of Self trust. What if I'm wrong...what if I spend time on something and it doesn't work? What if, what if, what if. If you are going to play that what if game then play it to completion! What IF I make a choice and realize it doesn't work out the way I thought----I will simply make another choice! How about flipping it all on its head and asking, "What if it DOES work out?" Sometimes what truly paralyzes us is all about being successful! So...a good mantra is, "I AM loving how everything ALWAYS works out for me". I would really like to address the inner conversation you have described---mainly, "why I can't do anything on my to do list" Asking yourself that question over and over again will keep you paralyzed in the 'can't' vibration (which, as you know, actually means WON'T). Change that kind of inner conversation and things lighten up! Why the penchant to be perfect all the time? If you came here to demonstrate and express your perfection in everything you think do and say there would be no need to even be here. There would be no need to learn, grow or evolve. EVERY choice is an EXPERIENCE and it is from the EXPERIENCE we learn, grow and evolve. You aren't wasting time. The I AM is in you TO experience ALL choices in some fashion. Trying to out-perfect the Universe is a little out of the scope of why your are here. So...here are a few I AM mantras for you" I AM loving how everything works out for me. I AM willing to trust myself in my decision making processes. I AM loving all my experiences as each one--and each choice that manifested the experience--is are here FOR me. Hope that helps! 💖

@Amber Akeson Agreed!!

@Jennifer Dowd Good for you Jennifer! I think in the beginning it is always uncomfortable and may tend to linger. When you introduce a change like this it isn't that it is truly hard (so please stop saying it is!! LOL) it is just foreign and new. When we are being aware we can often tell ourselves "Look at this new me rocking it!". That can soften the 'challenging' aspect for sure. Thank you so much for sharing your experience!!💖