Change Such a small word. Such a significant impact. Typically, people tend to shy away from change. They unknowingly cling to the familiarity of the status quo, even while longing for change. When it comes to manifesting a new reality people often desire profound external changes. In essence, that is what manifesting seems to be all about. One thing often missing from the equation, however, is that in order to include expansive new things in one’s reality, there first needs to be a shift within. This is the change that reaps the ultimate rewards. This is the change that is important. This is the change no one wants to entertain. Why then, when one perceives themselves to be doing absolutely everything correctly, do they never enjoy the fruits of their labour? Perhaps it is because there is something IN them that keeps the perceived dream external. It is helpful to become aware of what exists within your inner world, as it is directly reflected in your external world. To help drive this concept home, I was once asked what my initial response would be if I was told my dream home was ready to move into by tomorrow. It was suggested that I answer the question honestly. The FEELING I had was instant elation—then my ego consciousness kicked in and my thoughts turned to, “Oh! Well, now I have to do a major purge, and then pack and possibly sell off items in a hurry!” While the elation was powerful, the drudgery of what needed to be done before I took possession of the home was horrendous. To be honest, it shook me to my very core. How could I let the mundane details and the heaviness of ‘having’ to do that which I didn’t want to do override my happiness? It’s easy. The key is to be honest with yourself because noticing what surfaces is showing you exactly what is stopping you from realizing your desires. These subtle nuances in how you think, especially in times of knee-jerk reactions, are what you want to notice. Why? Because your nervous system has kicked into overdrive insistent upon finding the hiccup, the issue, the problem. This is what we call ‘conditioning’. It isn’t right nor wrong. It just is. Nothing is keeping your desires away from you because you do not deserve them; haven’t suffered enough to warrant them, or because you are not supposed to have them. It is all within you and that very powerful nervous system. What a relief to know that it can be calmed, soothed and taught that it is safe to experience something different.

Here are five ways you can tell you’re shifting into a new spiritual chapter: 1. Old patterns simply stop working. The reactions, habits, or coping mechanisms that once felt familiar suddenly feel heavy or misaligned. It’s not failure — it’s evolution. Your old tools don’t fit your new vibration. 2. You feel an internal nudge without a clear reason. You may not know why, but you know you’re being pulled forward. It feels like an inner “click,” a sense of readiness, or a soft but persistent call to grow. 3. People, situations, or commitments naturally fall away. Not through conflict — but through a gentle disengaging. Your energy shifts first, and life rearranges around it. 4. You experience heightened clarity or intuition. You start receiving insights faster, trusting them more, and recognizing guidance as it comes. The inner static quiets, and the signal becomes stronger. 5. You feel more at peace with the unknown. Instead of fearing change, you sense a calm acceptance — even anticipation. Your I AM is already standing in the next phase, inviting you to step there too. If you’re noticing these things, you’re not losing your footing — you’re shedding a layer that’s complete. Trust the transition. You are expanding, aligning, and preparing for a more powerful expression of who you truly are.

Every so often, when I least expect it, I am inspired to retreat. I have learned to honour these times, as they offer my greatest opportunities for inner growth. This time has been no different. I AM beginning to re-emerge now—changed, more peaceful, and deeply inner-oriented. The time of seeking answers externally has softened into a quiet presence within my own inner world. This has been a journey unto itself. And as I AM human, I understand there will be moments where I return again to anchor more deeply. Walking a spiritual path does not absolve us of challenges—we simply meet them differently. We are all a work in progress. This will never change, nor would I wish it to. It is in the willingness to move into the depths of our experience that true growth reveals itself. It feels important to share how this naturally expands into the services I offer. While the shifts may appear subtle, the space itself has deepened. There is a greater sense of peace within sessions, allowing for moments where your own clarity can arise more easily and naturally. Mediumship remains a meaningful part of my work and will always be welcomed when it presents itself. At the same time, sessions continue to be a space to breathe, to exhale, and to gently move into what matters most to you. From here, a deeper trust in Self begins to emerge—because it is you who holds the answers you seek. As with all things in life, growth brings refinement. My commitment remains the same: to meet you as fully and honestly as I can. When growth is honoured, what is offered naturally evolves—bringing with it greater clarity and depth for both of us. In this, we grow together. In the coming days, my new website will be shared. It reflects the quiet steadiness and calm of this new space within me. Sessions will continue to be available—now held within a deeper, more expansive presence that supports your own clarity and inner knowing. The I AM is always present, ready to meet us—regardless of the question, the challenge, or the moment.

This Christmas, remember: I AM not waiting for light — I AM the light. I AM not hoping for peace — I AM peace expressing itself. I AM not seeking love — I AM love made visible. YOU are the gift your looking for. In a world that often looks outward for miracles, Christmas gently reminds us that the miracle has always been within. The birth we celebrate is not only a moment in history, but a living truth awakening now — the divine choosing to know itself through you. May this season soften what has been heavy, quiet what has been loud, and restore your remembrance of who you truly are. As you move through gatherings, memories, joy, or stillness, let your presence be the gift. Let your awareness be the blessing. Today, and every day, I AM here. I AM whole. I AM home. Merry Christmas from my heart to yours!

How do you not take on accountability for someone else's behaviour. I have a colleague I'm working with and he takes no accountability and just overall is acting disrespectfully. At the end of the day today, I just felt so emotional like I'm failing and nothing I'm doing is working. How can I stop absorbing that feeling of failure when it's not even my responsibility for someone else's behavior. Is there an IAM statement I can use to shield myself?