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The Real Reason January Goals Stall
Many people confuse motivation with momentum. They feel an initial surge, then blame themselves when it fades. In January, this shows up everywhere. New routines, new goals, higher expectations. By mid-month, energy drops, habits slip, and self-criticism takes over. This usually isn’t a motivation issue. It’s a safety issue. High achievers rarely choose just one change. Multiple goals layered onto an already full system are read by the nervous system as overload. When that happens, the system does what it’s designed to do: conserve energy, restore balance, resist further demand. So when motivation disappears, don't beat yourself up; treat it as information, not failure. It may be signalling that too much, too fast, feels unsafe. Sustainable change doesn’t start with intensity; it starts with regulation. So introduce one change at a time, implement it slowly enough for the body to trust it. What changes if you stop chasing motivation and start listening for safety instead?
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Welcome to The Harmony Code® Community 🌿
I’m really glad you’re here. This is a women-only community, intentionally designed to support women navigating overload, misalignment, and change. This is a space to slow the noise, restore clarity, and rebuild a way of living and working that actually fits. We focus on alignment first, not performance, and on building the internal conditions that allow change to emerge naturally and sustainably. Here’s how to get started: Step #1: EXPLORE THE INSIGHTS LIBRARY. Head to the Classroom and start with The Insights Library. This is a thoughtfully organised library of short teachings, reflections, and applied tools designed to support clarity, self-trust, and alignment in real life. Each entry is focused on a specific pattern or pressure point, such as overthinking, self-doubt, exhaustion, decision fatigue, people-pleasing, or feeling stuck despite ā€œdoing all the right thingsā€. Inside the library, you’ll find: – clear, grounded insights to help you make sense of what’s happening without self-blame – simple reflection prompts or practices you can apply immediately – occasional downloadable resources or workbooks where they genuinely add value You don’t need to watch everything, and there’s no prescribed order. This space is designed for you to dip in when something resonates, feels timely, or names what you’re currently experiencing. Step #2: DISCOVER YOUR SABOTEURS (Optional) If you’d like some personalised insight as you get oriented, you’re welcome to book a free Discover Your Saboteurs session with me. This is a single, focused session designed to help you identify the internal patterns that quietly interfere with clarity, confidence, and follow-through, often without us realising they’re running the show. When you book, I’ll send you a short PQ Saboteurs assessment to complete beforehand. We’ll then use your results in the session to: – uncover which saboteurs are most active for you – explore how they tend to show up in your thinking, behaviour, and decisions
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Hi Sky, welcome, it’s really lovely to have you here. Your work sounds so meaningful and I love how closely your values align with the spirit of this space. And five Caminos, that’s incredible! I live in Europe and haven't done even one, its on the bucket list. There’s something so powerful about pilgrimage as a way of walking with life, loss, and meaning. It feels beautifully resonant with the work you do. Really lovely to have you here.
✨ New Procrastination Hypnotherapy Session Is Live ✨
The next recording in the procrastination series is now available in the Procrastination Reset classroom. If you listened to the first session, you’ll know it was designed to prepare the ground, settling your nervous system, creating safety, and setting the conditions for deeper subconscious work. This new recording is different. This is the first full hypnotherapy session in the series, where we begin working directly with the patterns underneath procrastination, not forcing motivation, not pushing productivity, but gently unwinding the internal signals that keep delaying, avoiding, or freezing. A few suggestions before you listen: - Approach it with curiosity rather than expectation - Let your system take what it needs, there’s no ā€œrightā€ experience - You may notice subtle shifts rather than dramatic ones, that’s exactly how this work often unfolds I’d really love your feedback on this one. After you’ve listened, feel free to share: - What you noticed during or after the session - Any shifts in how procrastination feels in your body or mind - Questions or themes you’d like me to address in future recordings Your reflections help shape what I create next, and they also support others in the community who may be listening quietly in the background. Take your time with it, and let me know how it lands šŸ¤
0 likes • Jan 10
Hello lovely, you'll find it in the the Procrastination Reset Classroom, for ease you'll find it here. I'll also update this post with the link (thank you for bringing it to my attention 🧔)
Who are you becoming this week?
Who do you need to become to live the life you keep saying you want? Most people jump straight into doing. More plans, more effort, more pressure. But that creates the very overwhelm that stops progress in the first place. Inside The Purposeful Path, we start differently. We work from identity first. When you shift how you see yourself, the habits almost choose themselves. Instead of ā€œI should work out moreā€, it becomes ā€œI’m someone who honours my wellbeingā€, and the movement follows. Instead of ā€œI need to be more organisedā€, it becomes ā€œI’m someone who keeps promises to myselfā€, and your structure strengthens naturally. Don't try to do too much all at once, it sets off alarm signals to our brain, which doesn't like drastic change. Head to the Purposeful Path in the classroom and follow the structure there when you're ready to make a change. This will keep the brain happy 🧠 ā¤ļø. So let’s start here as a group: Who are you becoming this week? Share it below and let’s anchor it together.
1 like • Dec '25
@Ann Connor So well said. Honestly, life gets a lot easier when you stop trying to wrestle with things that were never yours to control in the first place. Something that helps me is this quick check, is this in my control, or just in my concern? If it’s in my control, I can choose my next step, my response, how I show up. If it’s only in my concern (e.g. I'm worrying about it or overthinking it) such as other people’s reactions, timing, outcomes, I try to notice my mind gripping it, take a couple of slow breaths, and bring my attention back to one small thing I can actually do today. That shift, from trying to control to choosing how you respond, makes a big difference to how your nervous system reacts.
1 like • Dec '25
@Ann Connor I know you are!
Introduce Yourself
This thread is a space to say hello and begin getting to know one another. There’s no pressure to share anything personal, just whatever feels natural for you. You might like to include: 🌻 Where you’re based. 🌻 What drew you to The Harmony Code? 🌻 Something you’d love to experience or shift in your life this year. 🌻 One thing that currently helps you stay grounded or calm, …or just write whatever feels natural to you. Take a moment, share in your own way, and then have a read through a few other introductions. You’ll quickly see that you’re in good company here. I'll start.
0 likes • Nov '25
@Beverly Isla Hahahaha! I do love my lists too, so I hear you - it does take the joy out of some things!
1 like • Dec '25
@Dominika Isajew I really love what you said about titles and challenges leaving an imprint, but not becoming your definition. That’s such a clean kind of self-trust, the capacity to hold your story without being trapped inside it. I’m genuinely glad The Harmony CodeĀ® spoke to you, and I’m even more glad you’re here contributing to this space, making it richer.
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Angela Jackson
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I guide high-achieving women from self-abandonment and burnout to calm, grounded, emotionally sovereign leaders in 3 months with The Harmony Code.

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