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Helpers Who Need Help
This one is for all the helpers. You know who you are. The therapists, the nurses, the coaches, and the teachers in this community. You help people heal things you haven't finished healing for yourself. I want to say that plainly because I know you carry it quietly. I did the same thing for years. You sit across from someone and guide them through the exact terrain you avoid in your own life. You know the language. You know the frameworks. You are genuinely good at your job. And your guidance works. But privately, there is a room in your own house you do not enter. That interior place you don't go because it still hurts or haunts you. Here is what I want you to hear. That's not hypocrisy. It's the normal condition of every helper who was trained in a technique but never given a place to do their own work. Your training taught you to hold space for others. It never taught anyone to hold it for you. That has always been the problem for so many of us who are the helpers in the world. Most of you became helpers because of your wound, not in spite of it. The wound gave you the radar. The radar made you good. But radar is not the same as repair. It's not the same as healing from the inside. You do not lose credibility by doing your own work. You lose credibility by pretending you don't need to. This community is one of the few places where you get to be the one on the receiving end. No credentials required at the door. No performance either. If you work in a helping profession, comment your field below. Not your name, not your title. Just the field. I want the helpers here to see how many of each other there are.
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