Hi guys, lately I'm struggling to convince my brother to change his lifestyle, his way of life basically, ... he is a good guy, 34 y.o. , work as police officer for a long time but he only lives and complains about live, he dont like his job anymore even though he got better position, dont go exercise, doesnt have any girl worthy for something serious, dont learn anything new and usually durring the weakends go drinking with his buddies ... girls that have been interested for serious relationships lost the interest because he go out drinking and so on... he always complain and when i want to try to motivate him or talk to him about life and how he needs to change/evolve he dont listen, i have my strugles but i want to inspire him for change and maybe workout together, learn AI, make money, travel, find some good girls for family and so on but its not working, so I need maybe some advice, thx guys