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@Diane Belanger I totally get it. This age is hard in general, but then add in a dash of neurospicy and its a whole different level of challenge. A few things you can try : #1 your goal is to remain curious. When we feel stressed and anxious, we are not in a position to help problem solve. There could be several legit reasons he doesn't want to take the med at that time so getting to the bottom of understanding why is where I would start. I would ask: "Hey I've noticed it's been a struggle to take your meds in the morning. Can you help me understand what's going on with that?" Just listen for the answer. He may forget, he may struggle with demands in the morning, he may have more anxiety in the morning making it hard to eat or take vitamins. Once he gives you the answer for why he is struggling, bring him alongside you. I would say "This is a medication that needs to be taken. What suggestions do you have for taking it?" He likely will say something like "I don't know." and its true...he probably doesn't. Then I would make a few suggestions: "Since this medication has to be taken in the morning. You can choose to set an alarm to take your meds, or I can come upstairs and give it to you, or you can come downstairs and take it yourself. Which makes the most sense to you?" He may try to negotiate or argue which would be expected so don't engage with it in a negative way. Try "I understand this is frustrating, but it is a rule in this house. Let me know what you decide." This helps them to feel like they have a bit of control in a situation that feels out of their control. Also, if there are privilages he has like his laptop or phone or ipad, you can make the usage of those devices contingent upon taking his meds, but start with the curious question. Pop back in and let me know how it goes!

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