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9 contributions to AVA Collective
More Than a Bot: A Tool for Breaking Limiting Beliefs ❤️
This was amazing! The feedback was so spot on. ❤️ I can absolutely understand why so many women should experience AVA. If this 7-day interrupt is anything to go by, I can already see how AVA is so much more than a bot. She’s a tool to help us recognise and break everyday limiting beliefs. 🥹✨
Day 7
I’m Anchen, a mom of three who makes a success of everything she sets her mind to. When I set a goal, I work towards it and achieve it. I’m leaving all my excuses behind. No more waiting for the perfect time or telling myself that if it’s meant to be, it will happen. I am choosing to take action, show up, and become the woman I know I can be. For the next 30 days, I will show up like I’ve never shown up before. I will stay committed, be consistent, and hold myself accountable. This is my time to stop making excuses and start creating the life I want. 💪
Day 6
Day 6: The Real Cost 1. Picture yourself five years from now, having changed nothing. What does your life look like? I would feel deeply disappointed because I would know that I hadn't achieved the success I wanted for myself. To me, success isn't just about money or business. It's about having a healthy, fun, and loving relationship with my children and my husband. It's about being present, laughing together, making memories, and enjoying life as a family. I would also feel disappointed if my health remained unchanged because I want to feel strong, healthy, energetic, and confident in myself. I don't want to look back five years from now and realise that I kept putting my own goals aside instead of taking action. 2. What is it costing you to stay the same? Staying the same is costing me time, confidence, peace of mind, and opportunities to grow into the woman I know I can become. It's costing me the opportunity to build something of my own, become more financially independent, and feel proud of what I am creating. It's also costing me the chance to become healthier, stronger, and more disciplined. Most importantly, if I continue believing the same limiting beliefs about myself, I risk allowing fear, doubt, and procrastination to hold me back from the life I truly want. I don't want to keep waiting for the perfect moment or questioning whether I am capable enough. I want to take responsibility for my choices and start becoming the woman I know I can be. 3. Who else pays the price alongside you, and are you willing to keep charging them? My husband and, especially, my children pay the price alongside me. When I allow my limiting beliefs, fears, and insecurities to control my decisions, it doesn't only affect me. It can affect the atmosphere in our home, the way I show up for my family, and the example I set for my children. I want my girls to grow up seeing a mother who is willing to learn, grow, take risks, and pursue her dreams without sacrificing her family.
Day 5
1. Describe the version of me who already has what I want. She wakes up every morning and starts her day with affirmations, a healthy breakfast and preparing lunchboxes for her family. She makes time for her Bible study and doesn't just read God's Word — she lives it out in her everyday life. She approaches her work with confidence, trusts her abilities and serves her clients with excellence. She takes care of her body through exercise, running and cycling. She makes time to read, pray, laugh and enjoy life to the fullest. She earns her own money, manages it wisely and is in a position to help those who are less fortunate. She is generous and uses what she has to make a difference in the lives of others. Most importantly, she is present with her children and her husband. She laughs with them, enjoys them and creates beautiful memories with her family. She doesn't live in constant overwhelm or feel that she has to prove herself. She knows who she is, trusts God, believes in herself and understands that she can build a meaningful life without sacrificing the people and things that matter most. She lives with faith, confidence, discipline, joy and purpose. She knows she is enough. 2. Name one thing she does daily, by default, that I currently have to force. She approaches her day with patience and joy instead of feeling overwhelmed by everything she needs to do. She doesn't allow the pressure of everyday responsibilities to steal her peace. She trusts herself, takes things one step at a time and finds joy in the ordinary moments of life. 3. Choose one decision I can make today, not as the old me trying, but as her simply being herself. I will stop trying so hard to prove myself or to become someone worthy of the life I want. Instead, I will believe that I am already enough. I will trust God, have faith in the woman He created me to be and take action from a place of confidence rather than fear. I don't have to earn my worth through achievement. I can grow, build, serve and succeed while knowing that I am enough exactly as I am.
Day 4
Day 4: The Hidden Payoff 1. As long as I stay here, I never have to… Explain myself to anyone. I don't have to justify who I am, the choices I make, or the dreams I want to pursue. 2. What is this protection actually costing me? It is costing me my peace, my dreams, my savings account, and the body I dream of having. By staying in my comfort zone, I risk sacrificing the very things I want to achieve and the woman I want to become. 3. Is the payoff still worth the price? No. I want to look back on my life one day and feel incredibly proud of the woman I became, the goals I achieved, and the life I created. I don't want to look back and realise that I held myself back because I was afraid of what others might think or because I wanted to avoid explaining myself. I want to live boldly, pursue my dreams, and take responsibility for the life I want. My peace matters, but so do my dreams. And I refuse to sacrifice my future just to stay comfortable in the present.
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Anchen Van Rooyen
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