I thought I needed his attention… I found me instead…
I’ve been going to this café where I work on my laptop. There’s a guy there I instantly felt attracted to, and pretty soon I started wanting to get to know him and see if he’s interested in me. And right away, I noticed my pattern. He’s in my thoughts, my mind going into some future together, and me wanting proof that I’m liked. I even caught myself pulling oracle cards, asking what he thinks of me. But today I had a huge inner shift. I spent the week avoiding going to the café, feeling worried… and at the same time, still feeling this fun attraction. And I share this because it’s not about advice or playing the game. The shift was realizing I can choose to follow what lights me up and what brings me joy… And, I don’t need his approval. I don’t need him liking me back. That, I know myself from the inside, and I’m no longer defined by needing that validation. So I can go to the café simply because it brings me joy… and this shift... came from looking inward. If you’re like me, you're empathetic, and used to needing to be liked or prove your worth… and have this feeling of never good enough... But this shift for me, came from within. From learning to listen to my inner knowing and learning the signals of what lights me up. So, what if all you had to do was start listening to the language of your body, and seeing what lights you up (and following you’re inner knowing)? That's all you have to do, to start shifting to living a life of your dreams, and no longer needing to find enoughness or prove your worth. And if this resonates, I’d love to invite you to this WOMEN ONLY community, come check out and join me inside this free space… The Body Wisdom Way