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🇺🇸💙 Grief & Gratitude Can Exist Together
One thing I have learned since losing my dad is that grief doesn't disappear just because it's a holiday. You can be sitting at a cookout… laughing with family… watching your kids make memories… and still feel that little ache because someone important is missing. The empty chair. The tradition that feels different. The person who should be standing beside you. For a while I thought feeling joy meant I was somehow leaving my grief behind. But I'm learning that two things can be true: I can miss my dad deeply. AND I can still be grateful for the moments happening right in front of me. Love doesn't end. We just learn to carry it into new memories. 💙 If today feels a little bittersweet, you're not alone. Share below: ❤️ One thing you're grateful for today 💙 One person you're carrying in your heart today
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❤️ Today I am grateful for my kids being able to enjoy a fun 4th of July cookout swimming, eating good food and being with family. 💙 I am carrying my dad in my heart today. He loved the 4th of July. He would always wear his red tank top with a pair of blue and white striped shorts. This was his holiday outfit.
🌊 “What’s Something People Don’t Understand About Grief?”
Finish this sentence: “People don’t understand that grief ________.”
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@Angie Henson I completely agree
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@Kathy Doyle 100% Grief doesn’t show up when we are always home and alone. Sometimes it shows up at the check out line at Target or when you are on your way to work.
💙 NEW RESOURCE: Things Grieving People Wish Others Knew
One of the hardest parts of grief isn't just missing the person you love. It's feeling like the people around you don't always understand what you're carrying. They may mean well, but they don't realize: • Saying their name doesn't make us sad—we already miss them. • Healing doesn't mean forgetting. • Some days hurt more than anniversaries. • We don't need grief fixed. We need it witnessed. I created this simple resource because so many of us have thought these things but never said them out loud. You can find it in the Classroom under Resources. I'd love to know: 👉 Which one resonates with you the most?
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💙 Let's Share Their Name
One thing I've learned in grief is that we never stop wanting to talk about them. So let's do that today. Tell us: ✨ Your person's name ✨ Who they were to you ✨ One thing you'll always remember about them I'll start... My dad, Bunkie, could make anyone feel welcome. He loved sports, the beach, and being Grampy. He was so funny and had so many one liners that I will never forget. I actually catch myself saying many of them to this day. He was the best dad I could have ever asked for.
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@Angie Henson thank you for sharing. I am sorry for your loss ❤️
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@Kathy Doyle It sounds like they overcame a few different challenges in their lifetime. And what an amazing amount of time with one another. Married for 63 years is incredible. Thank you for sharing with us.
💛 Welcome… you’re not here by accident
Hi friend 💛 I just want to start by saying...I’m really glad you’re here. If you found your way into this space, there’s a good chance you’ve experienced some kind of loss. Maybe the loss of a loved one, a relationship, your health, your sense of identity or a version of life you thought you’d have. And somewhere along the way you’ve been trying to hold it all together. I see you. I’ve been there too. After losing my dad unexpectedly, everything in my life shifted. The grief, the anxiety and the heaviness came in waves and I didn’t know how to handle it. What I needed most was a space where I didn’t have to pretend I was okay. That’s why I created this community 💛 This is a space where: - You can be real about what you’re feeling - You don’t need the “right words” - You can reconnect with God at your own pace - You can find simple ways to calm your mind and body - You are surrounded by women who truly understand There is no pressure here. No timeline for your healing. Just take a breath and start where you are. To get started: Introduce yourself (share as much or as little as you’d like) and tell us how you’re feeling today. If you came from TikTok and commented PEACE, let me know below so I can personally welcome you. I truly believe this: ✨ Healing is possible ✨ Peace is possible ✨ And you don’t have to do this alone With love, Amanda 💛
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@Kathy Doyle Welcome. I am really glad you are here. I am so sorry for the loss of your dad and your mom. That is a lot of loss in a short period of time so I am sure your grief is compounded. I pray that you are taking time for yourself to grieve and process this difficult time. Sending you love and strength.
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@Kathy Doyle Wow! That is a lot to handle and to process. I am so sorry. Praying things start to get better for you and your family. Are you doing anything to take care of yourself? I know when my dad died, I took a leave of absence from work so I could process and take the time I needed for myself to grieve. I knew I needed time for myself. I also started therapy to deal with the trauma and some ptsd I was having from my dad's passing.
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Grief changed you—but God is rebuilding you. Helping midlife moms find peace after loss 💛

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