Good morning Wifey! What I’m about to share with you is High School or College level course material so put your “big girl” pants on! I could wait until we’ve laid the groundwork in elementary school but I want you ladies to feel a shift in your marriage ASAP so let’s do this! Ready to change your life? Keep reading… I’ll wait… OH! Post your Aha moments in the comments & remember to vote in the last post “What Grade Is Your Marriage In?” This is an important instruction for you to track your own progress! Okay… Enjoy todays lesson and homework, you are one step closer to a new season in your marriage IF you DO YOUR HOMEWORK: Your husband’s inner child/trauma is none of your business! As a wife, your business is to focus on his inner King, speaking only to his King will bring his King to the foreground while God deals with his hurt little boy. When we as wives concern ourselves with his inner boy we hurt ourselves on many levels - we damage our attraction to him, or his to us - hurting our intimacy - we see him as beneath us, like he’s now OUR little boy and we’re his mama… and the list of pain and division this brings to your marriage is exhausting! Queen - this is my secret for setting the stage for your marriage to grow into the next grades faster… ignore his little boy and speak to that King! He won’t have a choice but to step up or… step aside. Have a great day wifey! - Delyce Homework: 1. If your husband doesn’t feel like a grown ass man and he’s possibly used these or similar words with you to remind you that he is - THIS IS A SIGNAL!!!  He might find someone or something that makes him feel respected as a man (King). To remind yourself to only talk to and treat him like a king-change your cell phone screen saver to a Kings Crown. Every time you look at your phone check your attitude and your thoughts toward your King! 2. Write down and say these words: I married a man not a little boy, so I only speak to the man. My husband’s little boy/trauma is NONE of my business!  I am not my husband’s conscious or Holy Spirit, I am his wife, the Queen!