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Coercive Control
When we talk about TRAUMA AFFECTED children, we are very often talking about children who live in homes where COERCIVE CONTROL is being used. ✨ "using children" is a MAIN tactic that Abusers use to ✨GAIN AND MAINTAIN power and control over the sobreviviente ✨obviously seeing your parent being physically abused will cause trauma ✨if one's parent/caregiver is being abused they DO NOT have the bandwidth to parent so very often children are both neglected and actively abused ❣️I really feel that building community around the sobreviviente is ESSENTIAL for reducing the effects of trauma on children. If a parent is supported and safe then they are better able to meet their children's needs.
Coercive Control
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@Tonya Valadez We might not be able to get anything, but could we get closer? For example: German — Betroffene / Betroffener - Literally: “one who is affected” - Used in trauma, abuse, and public-health contexts - Crucially non-identity-locking - Centers impact without defining the person by it Why it’s useful: It avoids both helplessness (victim) and forced heroism (survivor). Closest English gloss: “person affected by coercive control”
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@Tonya Valadez That sounds like an even better option than my German "Betroffene." Yours is easier to say, and it just *sounds* cool. My word sounds like an engine part.
Welcome!!
Welcome @Matthew O'Brien !!! I am SO excited to have another ESD (now I know what it stands for!!) practitioner on skool!! I am excited to talk "shop" with you and discuss the benefits of self defense as a TRAUMA PREVENTION and INTERVENTION modality!! Can you tell us a bit more about your experience with ESD? How long have you been practicing/teaching? Why did you start? Do you teach classes to all women? Do you teach only physical skills? If it, what else do you teach?
Welcome!!
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@Christopher Whitehead-Baines Thank you! Happy to be here.
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@Serena DAfree
Empowerment Self Defense
I was amazingly blessed to study self-defense with Nadia Telsey!! She wrote a book in her last years and I am so happy to pass on her theory, her information and the skills she taught me over the 5ish years that I actively trained and worked with her. Check out this article, written specifically about Nadia and her "brand" of Women's Empowerment Self Defense.
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@Tonya Valadez I do not recognize the name, but I have also focused my efforts on my own, local group. It's entirely possible that my boss, Dr. Julie Harmon, would be familiar. As far as I can tell, Julie knows everybody in the ESD world.
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Trauma-informed empowerment coach. Grounded psychic. I teach repeatable skills that cut through bullshit and reveal what’s hidden. Guide, not guru.

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