I love this community! The info that is is shared from Vickie and Leslie is life-changing. But, equally valuable are the comments and encouragement within the community. I love checking in each day, creating new posts/comments, and reading the experiences and support from others in our group. What makes this group exceptional is that each of us were invited because we were the "right person" to be part of the community. I just invited my friend, Jodi Wolgamuth. She would be great here. Do you know anyone who would fit in with us? Someone who is supportive of other women, not going to spout rhetoric (political or otherwise), and would benefit from becoming an Undependent Woman? If so, you can invite her with this link: https://www.skool.com/undependentwomen/about?ref=2f6c29f179ab408ba5f4fc5e7563b816

“I’m ready to change.”... "I'm ready for a change" It sounds empowering. It feels honest. But it’s a "not enough," lie we tell ourselves. Because here’s the truth most people avoid...“Ready” is passive. It waits.“Ready”... is still sitting in the energy of someday....And we all know someday is a thief. If you want to change your life, you don’t need to prepare for it. You need to become the woman who’s already in it...Change doesn't begin with action. It begins with your language. Language is the software of the mind. And your subconscious listens closely for its instructions. When you say things like:... “I’m just not a morning person.”...or... “I’ve never been good with money.” or “I just can’t focus because I... fill in the blank....” You’re not actually stating an6 facts. You’re programming your identity and your reality. Identity is what dictates behavior, not motivation. This is why so many people are stuck... They won't shift identity to something more empowering. So, here's the shift I use to this day. Instead of saying “I’m ready to...”Say: “I am changing.” “I’m learning to...” “I’ve decided that...” “I’m becoming someone who...” These are forward-motion statements. Science has proved that we are malluable beings. We are not just one thing, we can bend reality, shape shifts, and create new perspectives any time we want to. When we shift identity... it activates new neural pathways. They signal to your subconscious that a new identity is in play. You are not fixed. You are malleable. Neuroplasticity is real. You're not stuck with the wiring you inherited or the beliefs you absorbed. Every time you change your languaging, you reshape what’s possible for your future. Stop saying you're: Lame Broke So behind Don't understand Not good with Too old Stuck I'm trying to Start saying "I AM" Discovering Empowering Learning Smart Changing Becoming Wealthy Capable A winner Creating Not because it’s magic... But because identity drives behavior, and identity is flexible, shapable, and you are capable of shaping your identity.

I AM A WOMAN