Giving care can feel more familiar than receiving it. We know how to help, encourage, and keep things moving. Being cared for may ask us to slow down and allow someone else to be present. As we prepare for Advent, here is a question to carry gently: What helps you receive love without feeling that you must immediately repay it? You might reflect on a relationship, a moment from the life of Jesus, or something you are still discovering. Share only what feels comfortable. An unfinished thought is welcome here.