Hot Take / Morning Download 🥰

The world has no shortage of - @$$holes.

Even if it’s only 1% of the population, when you have 8 billion people on the planet, that’s 80 million @$$holes.

Chances are you’re going to run into one.

I’m lucky enough to deal with maybe 0.1% @$$holes.

Maybe that’s the life I’ve carved out for myself, maybe it’s what I attract, or maybe it’s because I simply don’t put up with @$$holes.

Here’s the advantage of the biggest @$$hole in your life:

Maybe they’re your villain, your attacker, your nemesis — your personal Darth Vader. If you can learn to be patient with that person… if you can lovingly place boundaries and hold them… if you can learn who you don’t want to be because of them… and you arrive at a place where they can no longer steal your peace… then you can deal with almost anything life throws at you.

Maybe that’s why they came to Earth — to fulfill the spiritual contract of being the biggest @$$hole in your life.

I could be right, I could be wrong, but it’s far more functional than complaining about them and continuing the same cycles and loops you’ve been stuck in before.

Maybe this relationship isn’t here to break you.

Maybe it’s an opportunity to rise to a new level of consciousness you’ve never reached.

If you were a kind and loving person before this relationship and you aren’t now, then don’t let them win. Don’t let them change you.

Just evolve.

Just a thought.

- Love Shaman Zo

#toxicrelationships

#emotionalalchemy

#spiritualgrowth

#healingjourney

#selfmastery

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