I spent most of my life trying to become it.
👉Work harder → be enough.
👉Be more organised → be enough.
👉Stop being so emotional → be enough.
👉Apologise for the thing you did → be enough.
👉Achieve more, explain yourself better, take up less space, be easier to love → be enough.
The exhausting, never-ending, impossible project of becoming enough.
Here is what I found on the other side of a late ADHD diagnosis, twenty years of self-development, and more shame than I care to remember:
Enough was never the destination. 🎯
It was always the starting point. ✨