I'm a guy, yeah, I know but sometimes you can't be so sure so I put it out there. Why?
Because when people meet me for the first, second, third, ....nth time, they say I don't look, sound, or act anything like they imagined.
Well golly, thank you ... I think 🤔
They often refer to my martial arts training as the context from which they speak or misspeak.
I tell them I am also semi-skilled in marital (marriage) arts too but I am still a white belt. I am the "it" in the middle of marital arts. Notice how it rhymes with 💩 which I (and you) can be in our partnerships. I don't own her and she doesn't own me. It's not a business but it's personal between us and just us.
Now, for a preview of how martial arts can and does go wrong, here is a post I made. Partnerships go wrong too but you can suck up the crud for the both of you to make it work.
Sometimes, you have to leave. Don't make a big mess of it. Just be mature and BE KIND but leave!!!
Selah, K2