Founder's Story 15-Connection Begins with an Ear, Not a Mouth
And as I continued guiding travelers from around the world,I learned something that no textbook or camera manual could teach me:
The real key to creating a meaningful experience is learning to listen.
At first, I thought guiding meant “talking”—explaining culture, describing food, filling the silence.
But the more couples, families, honeymooners, and solo travelers I met,the clearer it became:
People don’t remember facts.
They remember how deeply they were understood.
Little by little, I stopped rushing through my scriptand started paying attention—to their stories, their reasons for traveling,their anxieties, their excitement.
And when I listened, everything changed.
I learned how to read the room.
How to sense when someone was tired, overwhelmed, or curious.How to shift a tour to match the guest’s energy, not my own plan.
This wasn’t just customer service.It was a kind of human connection—the same kind that had first drawn me to Couchsurfing,to photography, to teaching.
In time, I realized:
Communication isn’t about speaking clearly.It’s about making someone feel seen.
That skill—born from guiding thousands of guests across Tokyo—became another tool in my toolkit.Just as essential as English.Just as powerful as photography.
And just as transformative.
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Founder's Story 15-Connection Begins with an Ear, Not a Mouth
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