Write down 3 things you absolutely will not compromise on in a partner. Not wants. Not "it would be nice." Things you will not bend on. Could be values, behaviour, lifestyle, anything.
Most people can't do this in under 5 minutes. That's the point. If you don't know what you won't compromise on, you'll compromise on everything.
Comment "Day 1 done" when you've written yours. Don't share your list if you don't want to. Just say you did it.
~Lady Nadia 💞