PREVIEW: What your reaction to Charlie Kirk’s death says about you. Proverbs 17 has the answer.
It’s been one week since Charlie Kirk was gunned down on stage.
One week since a man known for boldly confronting cultural lies with biblical truth was murdered—while doing what he’d done for years: refusing to remain silent.
And now, one week later, the real headlines are not written by journalists. They’re written by people’s reactions.
The glee.The mockery.The "he deserved it" commentary.The silence of some who should have spoken.The cheers of others who shouldn’t have.
We are witnessing a national moment of exposure. Not just of political division—but of the hidden motives, fears, pride, and hate in the hearts of men.
“The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the Lord trieth the hearts.” (Proverbs 17:3)
We are in a furnace moment.
And it’s not just happening “out there.”It’s happening in you. In me. In the Church. In the culture.And Proverbs 17 gives us divine insight into what God wants us to learn—about ourselves, our stewardship, and our relationships.
SELF - What Pressure Reveals in You
“The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the Lord trieth the hearts.”(Proverbs 17:3)
This verse gives us the interpretive key for everything else in the chapter—and everything we’re watching unfold in culture.
God uses heat to bring impurities to the surface. He allows conflict, loss, injustice, and even persecution to do something we resist: reveal who we really are.
The word trieth in Hebrew (בָּחַן – bachan) means to test, to examine, to prove by pressure. The image here is of a smith holding silver in a refining pot, slowly increasing the heat until the dross separates.
That’s what God is doing in you. That’s what He’s doing in your family. That’s what He’s doing in America.
Charlie Kirk’s death is a furnace.
And whether you’re rejoicing, raging, or retreating in silence, this moment reveals your heart.
Ask yourself:
- What came up in me when I heard the news?
- Did I respond in prayer—or pride?
- Did I feel sorrow—or smug superiority?
"Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts." (Psalm 139:23)
WEALTH - When Access to Wisdom Is Not Enough
“Wherefore is there a price in the hand of a fool to get wisdom, seeing he hath no heart to it?”(Proverbs 17:16)
This is one of the most tragic verses in the chapter.A man has the means to get wisdom. The price is in his hand.He could sign up for the program, attend the class, or join the circle of the wise.
But he lacks the one thing that matters most: a heart for it.
This verse exposes one of the great dangers of our age: access without appetite.We are surrounded by information. Drenched in opportunity. And many have enough money to pay for wisdom but no intention of obeying it.
It’s possible to run a Christian business, read Christian books, watch Christian podcasts—and still be a fool.
That’s what we see in the aftermath of Charlie’s death:
- Influencers giving hot takes with no humility.
- Church leaders speaking in circles to avoid offending.
- Voices with large platforms but no wisdom.
Wisdom isn’t for sale.It’s for those who fear the Lord and obey Him. “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.” (Proverbs 9:10)
RELATIONSHIPS - Love Covers; Hatred Exposes
“He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.”(Proverbs 17:9)
In a world built on outrage algorithms, this verse is a rebuke.
Every time we rehearse the wrongs of others, spread their sins, or share what should have been left in private, we are acting as fools. Fools separate. But the wise protect.
Charlie Kirk had friends and enemies. But both are being exposed this week:
- Some friends have gone silent.
- Some “allies” have quickly distanced themselves.
- Enemies have made sure the transgressions he repented of were repeated endlessly.
This is not just about Charlie.
This is about you. And how you handle the sins of those close to you.
Do you repeat what someone did to you 10 years ago?Do you bring up your spouse’s mistakes every time you're hurt?Do you take sides in someone else's conflict?
The heart that loves will cover—not to enable sin—but to protect the bond.
“Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you.” (Ephesians 4:31)
The Real Test: What’s Coming Out of You?
Charlie Kirk’s death has become more than a news story.It has become a mirror. A moment. A furnace. And God is watching how you respond.
“A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” (Proverbs 17:17)
This is why community matters. This is why wisdom is needed. This is why our 12X Lab exists.
In the day of adversity, you find out who your real friends are.But more importantly, you find out who you are.
Join Me LIVE – 12X Lab: Proverbs 17
Time: 8:00 AM EST
Date: Today (September 17)
Focus: Self. Wealth. Relationships.
Theme: When Hearts Speak Louder Than Headlines
We’ll open the Word.We’ll unpack Proverbs 17.And we’ll apply its truth to what’s happening right now.
Bring your Bible. Bring your questions. Bring your heart.
Because this furnace is not meant to destroy you. It’s meant to refine you.
See you in the Lab,Sean IsaacsThe Wisdom Coach