Today you ask for something publicly. On your platform. Without the apologetic preamble.
Here is what that can look like:
“I am looking for a graphic designer who specializes in personal brands. If you know someone or are that person, send me a DM.” Direct. No “I know this is a long shot” or “sorry to ask.”
“I am navigating something in my business right now that I have never dealt with before. Has anyone here gone through [specific thing]? I would love to hear how you handled it.” Specific need, real question, no disclaimer about whether you should be asking.
“I have been wanting to collaborate with someone in the [industry] space for a while. If you are building something and think there is an alignment, I am open to a conversation.” Asking for connection without proving you deserve it first.
“I need more testimonials from clients I have worked with. If we have worked together and my work made a difference, I would be so grateful if you would share your experience.” Asking directly for what you need without minimizing the ask.
“I am looking for referrals this month. If you know someone who [specific description of ideal client], I would love an introduction.” Stating the need without over-explaining or apologizing for it.
The ask has to be real. It has to be something you actually need. And it has to go on your platform — not just inside the School where it feels safe.
Drop a video under two minutes inside the School with your link. Notice what it feels like to be seen needing something publicly and to stay with that feeling without immediately over-explaining or retracting the ask.
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