19d (edited) • 🧬 Decoding Your Child
Day 2 Human Design Discovery!
- Write complete Human Design parenting discovery story using the framework
- Scene: Set the stage with vivid details of when you realized traditional parenting wasn't working for your child. Use insights from yesterday's behavior tracking.
- We had a later gymnastics timeslot and she was going wild. She wasnt listening, didnt want to follow instructions. I was started to feel embarrassed. There were other classes go on so many people there. Eleanor baby sister was with a neighbor watching her for the first time, so underlying fear of having her with someone new while I was with Isabelle. It got to the point where I decided to leave. I talked to Shanlee after this and she suggested to try and ask Isabelle what she was feeling, because she knows!
- Struggle: External behavioral challenges + internal confusion about your child's nature and your parenting responses. What patterns did you notice in your 24-hour awareness practice? Naming emotions! This is huge for us. If we are feeling sad, or excited and why. And knowing if we are sad about something it will pass, and we are okay.
- Switch: The breakthrough moment when you discovered Human Design and began EMPOWERING your SELF-MASTERY over your parenting reactions. Now that I know we are both mirrors of each other, my being overwhelmed in that situation amplified it for Isabelle. We have to go through our emotions. Now we pause, connect with eachotherr through physical touch, usually a hug.
- Solution: What you are changing on this journey of mastering your responses to honor your child's design. I am changing how I response to situations, also letting her know its okay to feel these emotions. Frustration happens and we work through it. There are so many hugs throughout the day. she will just ask now for a hug which is great!
- Significance: Why this SELF-MASTERY matters for other parents with "challenging" children. The kids are not the problem. She may seem like she is giving me a hard time, but its ultimately me. What am I doing that is causing her reaction is the real question. This is so eye opening to know how we interact with eachother to create alignment and ultimately create a great life for her. She deserves true happiness and allowing her to thrive in her human design is key.
- Connect your story to the patterns you noticed in yesterday's behavior tracking
She needs connection. She needs physical hugs and hand holding to feel safe and secure.
- Begin mastering your responses to your Child's Design Type (Generator, Projector, Manifestor, MG, Reflector) Her and I are both generators and I think one of the key things is we need to observe first before we jump in. We mirror each others frustration so understanding that emotion and knowing we have to ride out that wave of emotion and then continue forward. Today we had to drop off Baby sister and she was in tears in the car. So I brought her in with me, but before I did, we took a moment outside and held both hands and said we are okay. That pause and awareness was a complete change in her and myself!
- What moment made you realize you needed to master your own responses to honor your child's design? I think in that gymnastics moment is when I looked at myself and thought what the heck am I doing? Why was this such an awful experience? What can I do to be better? Unlocking this human design for her is huge!
- How does this connect to the behavior patterns you noticed yesterday? 🌟
- Knowing her human design, bedtime, she has to be completely tired. She will let me know when she is ready for bed. Usually bedtime is a struggle. But once she has all her energy out, she knows. She wants to cuddle. Going outside before bedtime also helps and throughout the day. Going to check our chickens, feed our horse, go for a walk. Its great, she runs up and down the driveway. Get all that energy out while also being grounded.
"I'm EMPOWERING my SELF-MASTERY with my child's design! I'm excited to announce that my child is a Generator! The patterns I noticed yesterday make so much sense now because she is my mirror. I Tracey commit to mastering my responses to honor their design for 90 days and beyond!"
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Day 2 Human Design Discovery!
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