Jul 7 (edited) โข Chat ๐
Day 1 is here! It's all about Becoming Your Own Best Friend
You won't find me on this panel but the topic got me thinking.
We talk a lot about "๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง-๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ", "๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง", "๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ช๐ฐ๐ณ๐ช๐ต๐บ, ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ณ๐ท๐ฆ".
When I was first getting into business, I had just left a 7 year relationship and was really working on feeling whole on my own. It was a really liberating time but also one of the loneliest seasons of my life. I remember being given the advice to 'just love myself' or 'stop overthinking and just have fun'. It helped point me in the right direction, but honestly I still secretly googled "๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง" during my free time. Seriously it's like that.
Along the way, I finally came to understand what loving myself meant. It wasn't a feeling, ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป. It was equipping myself with self-care tools that actually worked, and that left me feeling more whole, more grounded, and more content during things solo. Something every business owner needs to master.
And that's when life and my business really took a turn for the better. My income increased because I had stronger client-partnership boundaries, more energy, and a happier attitude while serving. I practiced the self-care tools like it was my new lifestyle. I found actual tools that helped me become my own best friend. A few years back I created the ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐น๐ณ-๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ณ๐ฎ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐น๐ to help you increase your self-love, as well as raise your frequency to be a match for more support, ease, and miracles. Play around with it, choose what you like, do what resonates.
For us business owners, even us seasoned healers, remember, self-love isnโt something you earn after a perfect launch. Practice the tools when things feel messy and you wanna quit. Take a nap when you've given your all and still have more on your marketing to-do list. Say โno, thanksโ to a collaboration that doesnโt feel aligned. I do that a lot. And please, send the email, launch the offer, or show your face on Instagram even when your inner critic is loud. You're more powerful than you give yourself credit for!!! Your worth is not tied to outcomes of your business, it's just data, keep going anyways.
Here's the ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐น๐ณ-๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ w/audio instructions! No email sign-up required! ๐
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Day 1 is here! It's all about Becoming Your Own Best Friend
