My oldest moved to his girlfriend’s family home about 9 years ago. I suggested he leave his permanent address as my house (just in case). Three years ago, they broke up and he bought his first home.
It seems like he just picked up his body 9 years ago and left. He thinks he took a lot of stuff.
Friday night he came to visit and for the first real time, in 9 years, he looked through his stuff. 40 boxes/pairs of shoes are garbage - no not in a condition for good will. 6 bags of old bad shirts, again in no condition to donate.
I’ll be filling up the garbage cans for weeks.
It’s progress