This weekend, because of the snowstorm, I found myself reflecting on something.
I come from Costa Rica, where snow was never part of daily life. I was never a fan of winter, but I always loved short trips to experience it. A year and a half ago, I left behind comfort and familiarity because a dream of mine couldn’t wait any longer.
This weekend was my first real experience with a serious weather alert, and I also got the flu, which made it even more challenging. It wasn’t easy, but it reminded me how much discomfort changes us, not just physically, but mentally.
I’ve seen many people leave their comfort zones in search of better opportunities. In my case, what drives me is the desire to grow, to become better, and to make a positive impact. Being in New York constantly challenges my mindset, and that friction, as uncomfortable as it is, has been one of my greatest teachers.
Having studied psychology and now working closely with young people and families, I see how powerful it is when kids are exposed to healthy challenges. Not pressure, but experiences that stretch them, build resilience, and help them trust themselves.
Growth rarely happens in perfect conditions. It happens when we step into uncertainty, adapt, and keep moving forward.
It made me think about how important it is for young people to see examples of courage, effort, and intentional living.
What kinds of challenges do you feel are helping your child grow the most right now?