Most of us don’t avoid change
because we don’t want it.
We avoid it
because we’re afraid of what it might cost us.
Cost us approval.
Certainty.
Belonging.
The version of ourselves that feels “safe”.
So we don’t say the thing.
We don’t ask the question.
We don’t follow the nudge.
Not because we’re lazy.
But because staying the same feels less risky
than becoming more honest.
The danger is subtle.
Over time, avoidance starts to look like maturity.
Silence starts to look like wisdom.
And settling starts to feel like peace.
Until one day, it doesn’t.
The Remembering isn’t about dramatic change.
It’s about noticing the small moments
where you choose comfort over truth.
That’s usually where everything begins.