Grace Isn’t What I Thought It Was

I had to unlearn something big.

Grace isn’t lowering expectations for me. It isn’t “being easy” on myself in a way that lets me drift. And it definitely isn’t abandoning standards.

Grace is listening...without self-betrayal.

For a long time, consistency felt like another cycle of pressure. Another way to fail.But I realized the problem wasn’t my effort, it was the structure.

I stopped asking, “What’s wrong with me?”And started asking, “What actually supports me?”

That question changed how my body responds to consistency. It feels stabilizing now. Sustainable. Respectful.

I’ve done the research, on what works and on how I work. And that self-knowledge replaced self-judgment.

Reflection for you:

• Where are you holding standards that cost you too much?

• What would consistency look like if it didn’t require self-betrayal?

Drop your thoughts below. Let’s talk about what actually sticks.

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