26d • General discussion
It's about love ❤️
I don't take myself that seriously at my shows. My mannerisms, gestures, and tone combine to make me look and act as though I'm just a happy guy who loves what he does. This takes the pressure off and helps me feel more relaxed and focus on being present and having fun with the residents.
I used to rehearse my jokes and what I was going to say before I got to the show. Then I learned that being spontaneous helps me build rapport. And that makes for a great show.
"Hey, I didn't know you were baking cookies today, this makes for an even sweeter show!"
"Mary, did you know you're wearing my favorite color sweater?! How thoughtful of you to welcome me like that!"
"This crowd looks happy and ready for music, let me ask my guitar if he's ready too..(knocks on guitar case)."
"It smells like a Hallmark store in this living room, did you know that's one of my favorite stores to shop?"
Commenting on the present moment and letting it inspire you to play or sing or tell a story can create a meaningful connection with your audience before you even begin to play. If you're anxious about your next gig, here's something that's always helped me. Greet the residents as if you are seeing a best friend that you haven't seen in years. Give them a wholesome smile and tell them how good it is to see them and how much fun we are going to have together.
Lead with love. Bring your whole heart into the community and open it up to them. Be present and enjoy this special time together ❤️❤️❤️
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It's about love ❤️
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